This is what men should do to make women less picky....
there already is bumble
"Too much power" is a subjective judgement. Why would they relinquish it? Since they can afford it, why not just continue to let the other party do the approaching, and get publicly ashamed every time they are rejected, and even get charged with harassment? I wouldn't hesitate to do it for a second if I were in their shoes.
Unfortunately, their shoes would hurt, and I'd surely trip and fall over.
indeed. but men had power too and feminism movement got rid of it and pushed fore equlity for men.
we need to learn from how they did it and start a movement for equality for men. but women will as they have already call any such moment or attempt for true equality sexist as a way to defame us.
The power men used to have over women was based on physical dominance and on making it very hard for them to earn an independent living, especially if they wanted to have children. Increased individual freedom does away with that privilege.
However, the power women have when it comes to choosing a partner isn't based on coërcing anybody's freedom. It's a power they have because we let them have it. Women have adapted to surviving while men held all the real power, so, when there's no such thing, they kick our asses. Serves us well.
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However, the power women have when it comes to choosing a partner isn't based on coërcing anybody's freedom. It's a power they have because we let them have it. Women have adapted to surviving while men held all the real power, so, when there's no such thing, they kick our asses. Serves us well.
except their freedom to live as they want rather then as a cash cow for women.
what if women didn't push this. maybe more men would take lower paying jobs they like then higher paying stressful jobs they hate.
but you defend bullies and the mean people. you're like self hating of yourself. it makes me feel sad.
no it was based off they didn't think women belonged in the workforce not physical dominance. which makes it sound like women were forced by men physically to do it. ww2 was the beginning of the end as women showed they could work just as hard as men.
why get rid of one barbaric system and keep the other.
ok I'll get into the gang life and start robbing people and evnetually stores and banks. selling drugs and such. thats real the real money is. plus women love the criminal dangerous types.
oh yeah I never thought of htat make more money . its so easy why didn't i ghink of it let me go flick the more money swtich.
oh wait. no thats not how life works. poor stay poor. rich stay rich. thats how life works. I've been f*****g trying to make more money all my life and for what so women can say I'm worthless. that no matter how much I try it won't f*****g matter.
just come and kill me already. want us worthless men dead, come do it yourself. woman up.
or idk women could not be superficial and like men for their company.
I make so much I'm so well off and independent. but I need a guy who makes more and can provide for me even though I can do it myself. boo f*****g who.
Seeing as girls do not want to have no-strings sex (or sex-in-a-relationship or any sex at all) with YOU but are happy to do so with other guys... have you considered that the problem is YOU rather than all of female-kind?
Number 1: there are many girls and women out there who CLAIM to enjoy casual, no-strings, but very few of those are actually willing to put their money where their mouth is.
Number 2: It's not just me, there are tons of men in my situation. And if women were actually as sexually-minded as men are, there wouldn't be. Also, extremely unattractive women seem to have no trouble finding willing male sex partners.
Number 3: If you're trying to get under my skin, comments like that are not how you're gonna do it. I know what I am, and I know what you are too.
Number 1: Timber, OKCupid, POF, etc. stats on folks looking for no-strings sex do not agree with your worldview. Girls are having no-strings sex, just not with you.
Number 2: Then what are YOU doing that results in even the most unattractive of women to want absolutely nothing to do with you?
That's an interesting point. We live in a really messed up society. I read a Glamour magazine article about a couple who were fighting over money. He had a really interesting job as a sound engineer, but not a high wage, but she wanted him to quit and do a "real job" and earn more money. I really hope he stayed in his job doing what he loves. I hope he dumped her. It made me so sad. I've never bought that magazine again.
Oddly enough I met up with a friend the other week who has opted out of the rat race and decided to do what he wants to do for a living rather than focus on how much he can earn. He went up 100% in my estimation. Screw society, do what you want to do. I mean obviously having a job is great because it allows you to pay your bills and travel and what not and not everyone will enjoy their job, but don't push yourself into something that makes you miserable just because it pays more and you feel expected to do it.
Why didn't you ever buy it again? Was the magazine supporting what the woman said?
Why didn't you ever buy it again? Was the magazine supporting what the woman said?
It was just full of depressing articles like that. I did feel like it made her seem like she was in the right.
Also... I am dramatic.
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Why didn't you ever buy it again? Was the magazine supporting what the woman said?
They are magazines mainly sold for women, so of course they're gonna make the women always right :p.
Seeing as girls do not want to have no-strings sex (or sex-in-a-relationship or any sex at all) with YOU but are happy to do so with other guys... have you considered that the problem is YOU rather than all of female-kind?
Number 1: there are many girls and women out there who CLAIM to enjoy casual, no-strings, but very few of those are actually willing to put their money where their mouth is.
Number 2: It's not just me, there are tons of men in my situation. And if women were actually as sexually-minded as men are, there wouldn't be. Also, extremely unattractive women seem to have no trouble finding willing male sex partners.
Number 3: If you're trying to get under my skin, comments like that are not how you're gonna do it. I know what I am, and I know what you are too.
Number 1: Timber, OKCupid, POF, etc. stats on folks looking for no-strings sex do not agree with your worldview. Girls are having no-strings sex, just not with you.
Number 2: Then what are YOU doing that results in even the most unattractive of women to want absolutely nothing to do with you?
Number 1: Nope, most of the women on those sites are just there to get their egos stroked by having tons of losers like me flooding their inboxes with attempts to start a conversation with them, or waiting for a Prince Charming to fall on their lap.
Number 2: Again, it's not just me (you seem to keep forgetting that point). And WE are not doing anything, WE are just physically unattractive, socially-awkward who don't have anything to offer women in exchange for their sexual consent, and so as a result, we can't get sex. It's really that simple.
Well, those magazines openly announce market as being a product for women. What I really hate is when you have products that are supposedly marketed towards men doing that s**t. You know, like dating advice websites supposedly geared towards guys but that in practice are just feminist mouthpieces that tell women everything they want to hear and are read almost exclusively by women as a result, which is what the creators of those websites actually intended from the beginning... *cough* Dr. Nerdlove *cough*
Why didn't you ever buy it again? Was the magazine supporting what the woman said?
They are magazines mainly sold for women, so of course they're gonna make the women always right :p.
And she is right. She doesn't need a reason for dumping him, and has every right not to give a crap about how much he enjoys his job and to be uninterested in him if he doesn't instead take the higher-paying one.
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That's an interesting point. We live in a really messed up society. I read a Glamour magazine article about a couple who were fighting over money. He had a really interesting job as a sound engineer, but not a high wage, but she wanted him to quit and do a "real job" and earn more money. I really hope he stayed in his job doing what he loves. I hope he dumped her. It made me so sad. I've never bought that magazine again.
Oddly enough I met up with a friend the other week who has opted out of the rat race and decided to do what he wants to do for a living rather than focus on how much he can earn. He went up 100% in my estimation. Screw society, do what you want to do. I mean obviously having a job is great because it allows you to pay your bills and travel and what not and not everyone will enjoy their job, but don't push yourself into something that makes you miserable just because it pays more and you feel expected to do it.
hugs.
why it makes no difference to my situation and doomedness. its nice to see a another woman who sees the issue for what it is.
I can't help but wonder where I'd be if I'd done what would make me happy instead of pursuing jobs/degrees only to try to earn more money. I'd be in less debt for sure. I've seen this online line a lot. women complaining and wanting to leave their boyfriends because he doenst make enough or show ambition but constantly getting promotions. one was mad because her bf wouldn't' leave job he liked and got upset when she asked her dad to give him a job in his company without telling the him.
personally I like customer service and people oriented jobs. cashiering has its rough times but over all I mostly enjoy it. i get to help people. perhaps that job at hotels where they help people find places to go would be nice . I really would have maybe liked a door security job or front desk job, though made me bit anxious about it after that one person got beheaded. but cashiering and greeting dont' pay well. security may have payed more but still never enough
thanks for brightening my day for a bit though.
I think speed dating is done in big cities, especially more liberal cities; such as New York. I would hate to speed date in general, especially in a city like that where the womens political views would cause all kinds of issues. I think speed dating is probably worse than online dating. That being said, I may not be single soon; hopefully I'll never have to speed date.
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