Beta males - why do woman dislike them?

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15 Aug 2015, 8:23 pm

The alpha and beta male paradigm is made up by the gross and simplistic PUA community.



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16 Aug 2015, 6:39 am

It doesn't mention Beta anywhere, it only compares Alpha and Omega.

Beta is a friend of Alpha. He is second in command, if Alpha doesn't want/can do something Beta gets it. Beta position is not a bad one at all. Just one step away from the leading position and he can even influence Alpha. Women who can't get Alpha go for Beta.

Omega is the bottom of hierarchy, everyone is over him and he is considered nothing by most of society. Forever bullied. No woman wants Omega even if Alpha and Beta are unavailable.



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16 Aug 2015, 6:57 am

Image @ all of you forgetting about gamma, delta, epsilon etc.

LOL just kidding ;-)



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16 Aug 2015, 7:06 am

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Image @ all of you forgetting about gamma, delta, epsilon etc.

LOL just kidding ;-)


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16 Aug 2015, 9:06 am

Why on Earth would they like us?


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16 Aug 2015, 10:50 am

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It's important to remember that every female is different. Everyone has their own "type". Yes, there are some women who just want a stinking rich sugar daddy or a wall-to-wall-muscles-washboard-abs hunk but those kinds of women are not good to be in relationships with because they don't love you as a person, they just want you for your "good bits". There are women who do like "beta males", but there's much more to loving someone than that, it's just another stupid "stereotype". No matter what, both people in a relationship should love the other person for who they are. If not, they shouldn't even bother with each other.


No, that's nonsense...all us females are exactly the same regardless of neurotype and have the exact same taste in guys, want the exact same things and there is no variation among it period. lol, joking but it would seem some people believe that.


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16 Aug 2015, 10:54 am

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No, that's nonsense...all us females are exactly the same regardless of neurotype and have the exact same taste in guys, want the exact same things and there is no variation among it period. lol, joking but it would seem some people believe that.

lol :)



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16 Aug 2015, 1:53 pm

I think it's because women find beta males boring.


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16 Aug 2015, 4:48 pm

Ohhh man, I dam near lost it when I read the bit under the alpha male about the pen! :lol:



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16 Aug 2015, 4:57 pm

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Ohhh man, I dam near lost it when I read the bit under the alpha male about the pen! :lol:

So did I, LOL.



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16 Aug 2015, 7:00 pm

what matters is real man vs subhuman thingie.

beta or alpha if you have a well off job and own place some woman will want you. if you dont' you're not even human so you won't fall into any type of male be it beta, alpha, gamma or anything.

yes women all have different types but they also pretty much all have one demand in common, well paying job is required. poor women, fat women, thin women, rich women, ugly women, super hot women, etc demand that.

beta vs alpha is discussing the false issue.



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16 Aug 2015, 7:21 pm

sly279 wrote:
what matters is real man vs subhuman thingie.

beta or alpha if you have a well off job and own place some woman will want you. if you dont' you're not even human so you won't fall into any type of male be it beta, alpha, gamma or anything.

yes women all have different types but they also pretty much all have one demand in common, well paying job is required. poor women, fat women, thin women, rich women, ugly women, super hot women, etc demand that.

beta vs alpha is discussing the false issue.


Wtf dude, where do you gather this sh!t from? I'm calling BS, it sounds like you're just upset these women are not interested in you, so you chalk it up to some universal prerequisite for money. It might help get some girls but it definitely isn't required for everyone.



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16 Aug 2015, 7:31 pm

Crazyfool wrote:
sly279 wrote:
what matters is real man vs subhuman thingie.

beta or alpha if you have a well off job and own place some woman will want you. if you dont' you're not even human so you won't fall into any type of male be it beta, alpha, gamma or anything.

yes women all have different types but they also pretty much all have one demand in common, well paying job is required. poor women, fat women, thin women, rich women, ugly women, super hot women, etc demand that.

beta vs alpha is discussing the false issue.


Wtf dude, where do you gather this sh!t from? I'm calling BS, it sounds like you're just upset these women are not interested in you, so you chalk it up to some universal prerequisite for money. It might help get some girls but it definitely isn't required for everyone.


from seeing them post it on thier ads/proflies/fb page/tumbler/etc. and hearing women talk about it in rl.

never said everyone, most isn't everyone. most people like Pepsi or coke. that doesn't mean everyone likes those.

one can't ingore the majority of women who demand or say they want that and wont' date a guy who doesn't a have it.

go and ask women if they'd date a min wage worker. see how the majority answer no.

make an proflie with the same pticutres and info . but with one put that you're a lawer or docotr or some other well paying job and the other say you're a gas station attendent or some other min wage job see which one gets more responses .

the fact that many many men say this i swhat women want all over the world speaks to it not being just me. I've talked to many women who say this and theres a bunch on here that say it too. so how can you ignore the overwhelming evidence. I couldn't not anymore.



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16 Aug 2015, 8:25 pm

sly279 wrote:
Crazyfool wrote:
sly279 wrote:
what matters is real man vs subhuman thingie.

beta or alpha if you have a well off job and own place some woman will want you. if you dont' you're not even human so you won't fall into any type of male be it beta, alpha, gamma or anything.

yes women all have different types but they also pretty much all have one demand in common, well paying job is required. poor women, fat women, thin women, rich women, ugly women, super hot women, etc demand that.

beta vs alpha is discussing the false issue.


Wtf dude, where do you gather this sh!t from? I'm calling BS, it sounds like you're just upset these women are not interested in you, so you chalk it up to some universal prerequisite for money. It might help get some girls but it definitely isn't required for everyone.


from seeing them post it on thier ads/proflies/fb page/tumbler/etc. and hearing women talk about it in rl.

never said everyone, most isn't everyone. most people like Pepsi or coke. that doesn't mean everyone likes those.

one can't ingore the majority of women who demand or say they want that and wont' date a guy who doesn't a have it.

go and ask women if they'd date a min wage worker. see how the majority answer no.

make an proflie with the same pticutres and info . but with one put that you're a lawer or docotr or some other well paying job and the other say you're a gas station attendent or some other min wage job see which one gets more responses .

the fact that many many men say this i swhat women want all over the world speaks to it not being just me. I've talked to many women who say this and theres a bunch on here that say it too. so how can you ignore the overwhelming evidence. I couldn't not anymore.


How can I ignore the overwhelming evidence? Well because I'm evidence to the contrary, I have no money or job atm and I still manage to have a girlfriend....Honestly I never have spent money on a girl, even when I did have a job.

So if you think you're going to magically land yourself a ladyfriend once you get a good paying job, I think you are going to be very disappointed, unless she's using you....And I could have swore I just saw you posting something about you wanting to find real love, blah, blah, blah....yet here you are saying you need to get some money so you can get some girls. :lol:



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16 Aug 2015, 10:08 pm

Crazyfool wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Crazyfool wrote:
sly279 wrote:
what matters is real man vs subhuman thingie.

beta or alpha if you have a well off job and own place some woman will want you. if you dont' you're not even human so you won't fall into any type of male be it beta, alpha, gamma or anything.

yes women all have different types but they also pretty much all have one demand in common, well paying job is required. poor women, fat women, thin women, rich women, ugly women, super hot women, etc demand that.

beta vs alpha is discussing the false issue.


Wtf dude, where do you gather this sh!t from? I'm calling BS, it sounds like you're just upset these women are not interested in you, so you chalk it up to some universal prerequisite for money. It might help get some girls but it definitely isn't required for everyone.


from seeing them post it on thier ads/proflies/fb page/tumbler/etc. and hearing women talk about it in rl.

never said everyone, most isn't everyone. most people like Pepsi or coke. that doesn't mean everyone likes those.

one can't ingore the majority of women who demand or say they want that and wont' date a guy who doesn't a have it.

go and ask women if they'd date a min wage worker. see how the majority answer no.

make an proflie with the same pticutres and info . but with one put that you're a lawer or docotr or some other well paying job and the other say you're a gas station attendent or some other min wage job see which one gets more responses .

the fact that many many men say this i swhat women want all over the world speaks to it not being just me. I've talked to many women who say this and theres a bunch on here that say it too. so how can you ignore the overwhelming evidence. I couldn't not anymore.


How can I ignore the overwhelming evidence? Well because I'm evidence to the contrary, I have no money or job atm and I still manage to have a girlfriend....Honestly I never have spent money on a girl, even when I did have a job.

So if you think you're going to magically land yourself a ladyfriend once you get a good paying job, I think you are going to be very disappointed, unless she's using you....And I could have swore I just saw you posting something about you wanting to find real love, blah, blah, blah....yet here you are saying you need to get some money so you can get some girls. :lol:


well no as no job I get is good enough so n o I don't expect it to help I'm considering quitting and stop looking for a new job. but say I did get job that paisd over 20 an hour. no it wouldn't magically get me a gf, but I would be able to talk to the majority of women. which means my odds shoot striahgt up. if you're not allowed to even talk to them you have 0 odds of getting a gf. they'll very clear on the fact athat if you dont' have a decent job you can't message them. very clear.

though if that did happen I'd only be dating them so i could ghen reject them after a few dates. such women will never be able to really love anyone. they love the guys status not him. do I want to actually be with a woman like that. probably not why does anyone? i don't get it if you're girl would dupmp you if you lost your job does she love you or you money? why are guys with these women. sex and fake love I guess. they don't know the reality hopefully they don't ever lsoe their job.

yeah because thats how the world works. if you're a gy and you want to have a relationship you better pay out.
women here say thats how its so , men here say its so, women all over sya it too.
why are you getting mad at me, if you have such a great life why are you on here? shou'dnt you're time be filled with spending it with your gf.

funny as most people here who do find a gf/bf stop posting here.

like idealy I should just be able to carry my gun without a permit like other states do. but reality is my state requires a permit so I went and got one.

I want love and a gf. suppose if I ever do get a gf At least I'll know she loves me, unlike all the other guys who will never knowt hat. if a woman can't love you at your worse then can she actually love you. no. and why should they get you at your best.



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16 Aug 2015, 10:25 pm

Getting a woman should be the least of your worries. With a few cosmetic tricks, its not insurmountable. Finding someone who can relate with you is the tricky bit and if you arent aware of this can get you into a right royal mess of a life.