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The_Face_of_Boo
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19 Aug 2015, 9:23 am

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jkrane wrote:

Since your boyfriend is a guy, you can probably just give him a good slap across the face, or upside the head. Not hurting him, but just a little smack to let him know he's being ret*d. I obviously can't do that to my GF, because she's a woman, and that would be immoral to hit a woman. But your boyfriend is a guy, he's tough, he can take it.



why is it ok for women to abuse men?
but not men to abuse women?

seems sexist and or treat men as non humans. though its not ok to abuse animals either, so its only ok to abuse men. seems wrong to me :( I had a woman friend in middle school who would hit me all the time.







And the most shocking is THIS:



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19 Aug 2015, 1:29 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Tell her: no clean up, no sex for you.



Um actually that doesn't work I have read. I know that is something that most people do from what it sounds like but it doesn't work. I am sure it has worked but then after a while the partner goes "Oh f**k it" and it leads to a break up or a divorce and all there is is resentment. I have tried it with my husband and it didn't work. He just said "You don't have it anyway so I don't see how this is any different" and I said well when he wants it I won't give it to him and he said "that's mean." Yeah parents can take things away from kids and withhold things from them to get them to do their chores and stuff but it's not something you can do in a relationship. Everyone calls it a game but yet they wouldn't for parenting.


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19 Aug 2015, 2:10 pm

League_Girl wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Tell her: no clean up, no sex for you.



Um actually that doesn't work I have read. I know that is something that most people do from what it sounds like but it doesn't work. I am sure it has worked but then after a while the partner goes "Oh f**k it" and it leads to a break up or a divorce and all there is is resentment. I have tried it with my husband and it didn't work. He just said "You don't have it anyway so I don't see how this is any different" and I said well when he wants it I won't give it to him and he said "that's mean." Yeah parents can take things away from kids and withhold things from them to get them to do their chores and stuff but it's not something you can do in a relationship. Everyone calls it a game but yet they wouldn't for parenting.



I was joking.

But lol... you tried it on your husband.

Women.....