Is there anyone like me?

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Ok, i shall try to curtail my expectations :p

Yeah, too hairy for you.

I'm not adverse to body hair, though truthfully, personally I'm more likely to think it's cuter on a girl. :p

I can wear a skirt, just saying...

I think this one particular girl I associate with may actually be bi but I'm near-certain she's more NT although she's been willing to learn things of my AS-oriented interests and has found it quite interesting (her mind was blown of course since much of what I need her to learn is factually stuff you can never learn and will never learn from any of the main-stream nor conventional-sources [due to much of it being controversial-content I suppose {i.e.: out-side-the-box ideas...}]).

You posed two questions in this thread though :
« Is There Anyone Like Me? »
We're really not going to know unless you describe more about what you're like, for all we know, you might be asking if anybody has a similar look/appearance to you, and that can be done through cos-play, wigs, facial-masks that disguise your appearance as can be seen in certain movies that involve spies & double-agents, etc.

« has anyone got any thoughts about what i could do? »
This question seems to be related as to how you can get a lesbian girl-friend. One that you would prefer to be on some kind of spectrum. Well, you can do plenty of things, one of which comes to mind being something like... http://lgbtfriends.meetup.com/

You could also just « meditate » a lot every day & eventually just let the answer(s) come to you.

Do you even know what the MeetUp-Groups are ?

Ban-Dodger wrote:

Well, you can do plenty of things, one of which comes to mind being something like... http://lgbtfriends.meetup.com/

She said she didn't want to go messaging random girls on the internet

A lot of the girls I know have/have had girlfriends and I have insomnia in spades, so maybe I can lend some context.

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You could also see if there's an active LGBT community in your city that you could talk to. One or two meetings would be enough to see if it's potentially a place for you to talk to people, meet new friends, and date, or if they're just not your type of people. If it's not, then just go where you're comfortable and check out online dating websites once in awhile in case anyone else is also sitting there wondering if "their type" exists at all.

Generally, the more places you at least pass through once in awhile the better your chances. It might be on a college campus, it might be on OKCupid, or it might be totally by chance when you're both walking in the park. There's really no predicting where people are coming from. My first girlfriend was a classmate, but I never met anyone that way since.

I read about gay women who are socially awkward, shy, and other things online now and then. I think there's actually quite a few out there. Unfortunately, they tend to stay home.

The one thing I don't recommend is PMing anyone who's also a bi/gay woman. I met one online, but if you have no reason to talk to each other because of what you are (only what you want to be) and it's not a dating site, it's best to leave them be.

"Is There Anyone Like Me?"

No one is gorgeous like you OP, no one.









ps: that's part of your pickup learning process.