Physical and NonPhysical traits that your SO should have.

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The_Face_of_Boo
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02 Sep 2015, 8:18 am

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What do you mean exactly by a man's "bone structure"?
Thanks for asking. I don't know how exactly I can tell but I'll try..Man's bone structure is wider, thicker, more angular, and has harsher lines regardless height, muscles than woman's. For instance 160cm stocky man still has man's bone structure and a 160cm thin nerdy man still has man's bone structure if their knee/elbow bones are more thicker and angular than mine. That being said, I can tell that most men have man's bone structure. :D


and how a man can not have a man's bone structure then? unless he's a woman or a trans originally-woman.



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02 Sep 2015, 9:41 am

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and how a man can not have a man's bone structure then? unless he's a woman or a trans originally-woman.
That's the point. You need to know that there are a lot more women who value the inside more than looks when they choose a man more than you assume. To identify a decent seed inside of a man, a woman will do better to focus on how a man thinks/acts rather than how he looks. Sorry for saying like this boring things..I really hate saying this school teacher like words too, but I'd like you to take what I said as a serious genuine opinion of mine. =)


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02 Sep 2015, 11:10 am

I'd guess a man's bone structure means she can highfive you, pat your back or bear-hug you as hard as she feels like doing it without worrying about breaking any bone of yours. A requirement easy to meet with most women, but not with one built like Venus Williams.

Regarding the original question, first and foremost, she should exist.


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02 Sep 2015, 12:40 pm

Drawyer wrote:
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(not really should have, more of and ideal)
You mean you don't want to tell the physical traits of your ideal partner, as they are more of ideal. Did I translate properly? =)


The personality traits are ideal, as they are not common. I don't really think about physical attributes so much, its hard enough just to meet someone. Important thing is that they take care of themselves, health and grooming etc.



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02 Sep 2015, 8:38 pm

Personal traits: A gentleman, chivalrous but not misogynistic, Christian but not right-wing, funny, honest, intelligent, kind, faithful, cultured, and odd enough to deal with me. Men, take note: women appreciate being treated like a lady

Physical: Taller than me, muscles, and (most importantly) a baritone voice. An accent from the British Isles is optional but much appreciated :wink:



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02 Sep 2015, 9:33 pm

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I'd guess a man's bone structure means she can highfive you, pat your back or bear-hug you as hard as she feels like doing it without worrying about breaking any bone of yours.
(By the way, what's up dude! nice to see you here! ) Yes, that's it!! :D


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03 Sep 2015, 1:05 am

Drawyer wrote:
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I'd guess a man's bone structure means she can highfive you, pat your back or bear-hug you as hard as she feels like doing it without worrying about breaking any bone of yours.
Yes, that's it!! :D

Strong bone structure, then, you mean? Cos I have the above bone structure but it's a woman's bone structure (cos I'm, y'know, a woman). :)



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03 Sep 2015, 1:47 am

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Strong bone structure, then, you mean? Cos I have the above bone structure but it's a woman's bone structure (cos I'm, y'know, a woman). :)
I actually can't tell you anything atm until I meet you in person. But I've never been attracted females in romantic ways so far regardless their man-like bone structure though I prefer hanging out with girls who act/think like a man. So I'm sure if I lived near you, we could be very good buddies to each other. :D


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03 Sep 2015, 1:48 am

Spiderpig wrote:
I'd guess a man's bone structure means she can highfive you, pat your back or bear-hug you as hard as she feels like doing it without worrying about breaking any bone of yours. A requirement easy to meet with most women, but not with one built like Venus Williams.

Regarding the original question, first and foremost, she should exist.


In other term, "a bone structure stronger than mine".



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03 Sep 2015, 1:51 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
In other term, "a bone structure stronger than mine".
Yeah, that's it!! :D


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03 Sep 2015, 2:27 am

Drawyer wrote:
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I'd guess a man's bone structure means she can highfive you, pat your back or bear-hug you as hard as she feels like doing it without worrying about breaking any bone of yours.
(By the way, what's up dude! nice to see you here! ) Yes, that's it!! :D


You can do all of that, but if you tickle me I'm done for :(



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03 Sep 2015, 2:31 am

I honestly get a bit scared for girls if they're much of any skinnier than me, simply because I know how risky that can be for neural and musculoskeletal health; I have the bone structure you're describing, I'm just rail skinny due to a maternal hereditary calcium deficiency I discovered a couple years back. Lol I've earnestly tried to GAIN weight... No luck there. At least I'm not too skinny to distribute bear hugs.

I dunno if I actually value anything over hugs. Hugs are important to hippies like me.

Apart from that I mostly value spontanaety, wits and intelligence, though I wouldn't really call myself sapiosexual; I know one girl who fits that definition and I meanwhile identify with girls who view intelligence as just another trapping of being alive, rather than a deciding factor. It's cool & all being pursued over my studiousness but hat comes with the dubious side effect of making me WANT to work more :|


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03 Sep 2015, 6:53 am

physical: Around five foot tall, thin, athletic, likes to put on a dress from time to time. (Sorry if that sounds shallow, but this is the kind of women I grew up around.)

non-physical: no mental illness (excluding autism spectrum maybe. If it was mild I don't think it would be so bad), confident (I dont want to have to solve someones problems for them, no), likes to ride bike and hike and camp, eats vegetarian, likes to engage in philosophical discussions, likes reading literature with me, etc.



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03 Sep 2015, 8:39 am

Astro77 wrote:
You can do all of that, but if you tickle me I'm done for :(
Sorry, but I'll tickle you lol

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....(Sorry if that sounds shallow, but this is the kind of women I grew up around.)...
No No No, Everybody would think there's nothing wrong/shallow with having specific preferences. We are talking about what your favorite beers are here in this thread..somebody doesn't mind if beer is beer, while many others would have their favorites such as Belgian Wit Beer, Dry Irish Stout, Robust English Porter… :D


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03 Sep 2015, 8:52 am

I had some sort of dark beer the other day, which I am not normally a fan of, but it was great.



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03 Sep 2015, 9:00 am

Hahaha..don't do that,,I should admit that I said something I shouldn't..So,,you guy's going to talking about beer? Don't do that..


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