Why do girls stop talking to me on Tinder? Wtf?!

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05 Oct 2015, 7:00 am

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Did you seriously reply to them like that, or are you just messin' with us? :wink:

I don't think he is. The guy seems pretty serious too me.

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05 Oct 2015, 7:02 am

You should had sent an additional message to girl 3 : Hey, you'll take the toy! I swear!

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05 Oct 2015, 7:30 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

Hey, you'll take the toy! I swear!

Lol, no way she'll take it!

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05 Oct 2015, 7:39 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

You trolled them all, trolling is in your blood :lol:

Yeah, this.

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05 Oct 2015, 7:49 am

moirakelly wrote:

My take on what you did wrong:

Girl 1. Insulted her taste/intelligence by telling her why you think her fave Pokemon is stupid.

Girl 2. Overkill. A better response would've been "Bluegrass. You?".

Girl 3. Too forward, too fast. Maybe exchange a few more texts, establish a rapport before you suggest meeting up.

Just because you've exchanged one or two messages doesn't mean the girl 100% wants to hook up with you. You might also wanna lose the desperation.

For girl 3, I'm honestly confused about who was too forward or too fast. I mean, it was actually the girl who first suggested that they should hang out, not him, and that was only in her second reply. He merely agreed to it.

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05 Oct 2015, 7:53 am

One time, on an erotic site, a chat went something like this:

Her: Hey babe, wanna roleplay?
Me: Yes, why not.
Her: You lead.
Me: I choose the mage class
Her: ....
Me: (Casting Fireball spell)
Her: What the hell is that?
Me: Me did 15 points damage to you!
Her: f**k OFF YOU NUT!

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05 Oct 2015, 8:32 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

She likely had something very different in mind when you asked her if she wanted to "role play".

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05 Oct 2015, 8:34 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

What a mage, you made her disappear!

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05 Oct 2015, 8:41 am

Jono wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

One time, on an erotic site, a chat went something like this:

!

She likely had something very different in mind when you asked her if she wanted to "role play".

She asked me to role play.

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05 Oct 2015, 8:51 am

When I was young back in the MSN messenger days, I was used to put this http://www.39dollarglasses.com/blog/wp- ... lasses.jpg as avatar.

Her: Cute monkey!
Me: Monkey? This is actually me, I was born like this
Her: I am soooo sorry =(((
Her: How did that happen? =(((
Me: Genetic mutation dad ate too much bananas.

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05 Oct 2015, 9:17 am

Ahahahahhahah!
Troll or not, I love this thread. ^^

IMO this is a real problem for some Aspies like me.
I notice when I chat (which I don't for a reason, lol) I don't even try to make sense of the stuff written, like I don't even look for context/meaning or think about good replies, I don't look for innuendo/flirting and just write whatever comes to mind. :roll: :roll:
Seriously, when I used to chat with strangers I wanted to have rational discussions lol... even overt flirting which I might understand feels unnatural/instead offensive/I don't even notice and I want it to go away = ignore it.
It wouldn't even occur to me to ask someone overly personal questions let alone about meeting up (because my teeth are hideous and mannerisms completely dysfunctional). ^^

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05 Oct 2015, 9:30 am

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The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

What a mage, you made her disappear!

Nope, it was a fire mage subclass, not an illusionist mage.

Noobs...

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05 Oct 2015, 11:59 am

Peacesells wrote:

As you see some guys say stuff like "women are evil, they hate me, they ditch me for no reason, etc etc" but it's their own fault in the end.

Not always. A lot of people on free dating sites don't actually want to date.

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05 Oct 2015, 12:09 pm

DevilKisses wrote:

Peacesells wrote:

As you see some guys say stuff like "women are evil, they hate me, they ditch me for no reason, etc etc" but it's their own fault in the end.

Not always. A lot of people on free dating sites don't actually want to date.

Because they've nothing better to do than mess with people's heads? I've a hard time believing that, given that something like 1/3 of people now meet their husband/wife online.

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05 Oct 2015, 12:17 pm

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A month ago, I decided to get Tinder because everyone else my age was using it and was like what the heck i'll give it a go.

So anyways I got some matches from pretty girls and proceeded to message them but they all ghosted me, I don't know why. It's very frustrating, what the heck am I possibly doing wrong? I really have no idea what i'm saying that would be considered bad.

Here I will give you 3 conversations I had with women on this app.

Girl #1

Me: Hey

Her: Hi =)

Me: What's your favorite pokemon? Mine is Charizard!

Her: Shellder because it reminds me of my vagina

Me: How could you like Shellder? It's base stats are crap, it's move set is crap, half of the pokemon in the OU tier is super effective against it.

She never replied back...

Girl #2.

She messaged me first... My bio says music music music in it.

Her: What kind of music music music do you like?

Me: I have a passion for bluegrass screamo. Basically it's bluegrass but instead of singing, you're screaming. I want to start my own bluegrass screamo band. What about you?

She never replied back either...

Girl #3.

Her: Hey you are cute

Me: Thanks, you too.

Her: I know this is sudden but do you want to hangout?

Me: Sure let me take you to mcdonalds and buy you a happy meal.

She never replied back...

Wtf?! Why do women hate me so much ='( All I want is love and affection but girls have to hate me for whatever reason.

What am I possibly doing wrong?

This was too hilarious. I thought this was a joke when I first read it, but if it is not-let me give you my serious take on what you did wrong.

Girl #1- Yes, you insulted her intelligence, but you first and foremost came off as condescending and aggressive. No girl wants a controlling and judgmental guy around her.

Girl#2- Bluegrass screamo bands just do not float some women's boats. For some reason, they might think the people who like this type of music are "weird" and "scary" and thus might not be into them. Also, I think the fact that you told her you wanted to start your own band was giving her too much information too soon and she might have thought you are not serious about your future if that is your goal instead of going into a stable and steady career.

Girl #3- McDonalds is not romantic or sexy. It's cheap. Furthermore, she would have most definitely either thought you were just a jerk for bringing it up or that you were being sarcastic and making fun of her. Regardless of whether she was just looking for a quick hook-up.

That's my female take on it.

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05 Oct 2015, 1:16 pm

moirakelly wrote:

DevilKisses wrote:

Peacesells wrote:

As you see some guys say stuff like "women are evil, they hate me, they ditch me for no reason, etc etc" but it's their own fault in the end.

Not always. A lot of people on free dating sites don't actually want to date.

Because they've nothing better to do than mess with people's heads? I've a hard time believing that, given that something like 1/3 of people now meet their husband/wife online.

I've heard a few girls admit this before. They said that they just want to chat with people. I guess some people find it entertaining.

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