The real reason I can't get a girlfriend

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Yes.

You seem to have too much anger in general and too much contempt for women to deserve their love. While some women may occassionaly tolerate a little lack of respect from their jerk boyfriends, most are turned off by constant hatred and anger and phrases like "fat ugly whales", even when the anger, hate, and insults are not directed at them.

I'm with MissMistopholes on this one: If you think that your "... simultaneously negative, sexist, and over-entitled attitude ..." will attract an angelic woman to you, then think again. With an attitude like yours, you can expect to be lonely for a very long time.

But if you want to change your situation, then YOU have to change YOUR attitude first.

The change begins with you, because nothing will ever change for you.

I'm sorry, that sucks I do think you have every reason to be hopeful though! My boyfriend has AS and he thought he would be single forever, but it just took longer to find someone. He had his first real GF at 21, and a couple others, and had been single for a while when we met (he is 33 and I am 36). He had gotten a degree in computer science, obtained a great job, and focused on developing interests (mountaineering, rock climbing, etc) and making friends. We met through mutual friends. I think it's important to focus on finding things you like to do and taking good care of yourself- I am sure you will find what you're looking for, it just may take time.