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17 Dec 2015, 4:14 am

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1. College. If you're going off to college and living the college experience, you can meet women there. And get one of them to Netflix and Chill. You're 18 years old and your sex drive is only really starting to take off.

2. Work. If you work at a restaurant, you can meet women from there. Probably not a lot of options though. And it all depends on where you work.

3. Tinder. Tinder is an online dating app that almost all 20 something year olds know about and a ton of people are using it. I would totally recommend it because there's so many women using it and you never know what's going to happen. Although I would only recommend Tinder if you're decent looking. If you're fat and plain looking, then it probably isn't for you.

Also the fact you're an 18 year old male probably means that the only girls who will realistically match with you are 18 or 19 years old because not a lot of women are into men a couple years younger.
4. Church. There is a lot of repressed sexuality in most churches. There are also a lot of young, single women who would be interested in dating a man who at least pretends to be interested in becoming more "spiritual". Just be aware that once you actually join her church, she may lose interest in you, and seek out another non-believer with whom to engage in what's commonly referred to as "missionary dating".

Church? Really? When I was a Christian I went to churches and all I saw there was old people. It's a good thing I abandoned my religion and don't go there anymore, churches are scary.
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tinder, okcupid, bumble, etc are all free

Hey, nice to see you posting. :)
Will you ever do anything about CloudFare?
The sites you mentioned may be "free", but all you find there are fake profiles and spambots.



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17 Dec 2015, 4:26 am

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Really? Anywhere?
Why didn't I find one under the sofa yet? Any tips? :mrgreen:
:lol: :P


I was under the sofa once, maybe not your sofa, but a sofa :)


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17 Dec 2015, 5:15 am

Getting into a relationship would require putting yourself way out there, going to clubs, concerts and whatnot. Aspies are reluctant to even exit their homes, so in fact you won't find anyone compatible with you by going out. It's a lose-lose situation.



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17 Dec 2015, 5:24 am

Kyle Katarn wrote:
Church? Really? When I was a Christian I went to churches and all I saw there was old people. It's a good thing I abandoned my religion and don't go there anymore, churches are scary.
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tinder, okcupid, bumble, etc are all free

The sites you mentioned may be "free", but all you find there are fake profiles and spambots.

I had success on Christian dating websites and girls I've met there were really nice and conventionally good looking (not that it mattered to me).



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17 Dec 2015, 7:56 am

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Church? Really? When I was a Christian I went to churches and all I saw there was old people. It's a good thing I abandoned my religion and don't go there anymore, churches are scary.

I once did this this called the Alpha course. Basically it is an introduction to Christianity in general and is welcoming and open to all. I saw a number of young women with their parents: I have little doubt they were single and available. Another good place is (or was) the mall: I used to chat with a number of girls from High School who worked at the local mall.



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17 Dec 2015, 8:23 am

Kyle Katarn wrote:
Getting into a relationship would require putting yourself way out there, going to clubs, concerts and whatnot. Aspies are reluctant to even exit their homes, so in fact you won't find anyone compatible with you by going out. It's a lose-lose situation.

As i can say to nearly all your posts: Not all of us.
Many autistics have no trouble going outside of their homes, they just won't go to a "regular" destination.

Also, we aren't only compatible to other aspies, there are plenty of NTs that 'fit' us...



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17 Dec 2015, 4:56 pm

I'm sure there many NT girls compatible with me out there, but it's a matter of stepping out and breaking the ice. The idea is to have a baby step approach, like learning an art lesson by lesson. And there is lots of competition, many guys fighting over one girl, it's a tough world out there. It takes hundreds of attempts to obtain one success.



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17 Dec 2015, 7:59 pm

Kyle Katarn wrote:
Fnord wrote:
darkphantomx1 wrote:
1. College. If you're going off to college and living the college experience, you can meet women there. And get one of them to Netflix and Chill. You're 18 years old and your sex drive is only really starting to take off.

2. Work. If you work at a restaurant, you can meet women from there. Probably not a lot of options though. And it all depends on where you work.

3. Tinder. Tinder is an online dating app that almost all 20 something year olds know about and a ton of people are using it. I would totally recommend it because there's so many women using it and you never know what's going to happen. Although I would only recommend Tinder if you're decent looking. If you're fat and plain looking, then it probably isn't for you.

4. Church. There is a lot of repressed sexuality in most churches. There are also a lot of young, single women who would be interested in dating a man who at least pretends to be interested in becoming more "spiritual". Just be aware that once you actually join her church, she may lose interest in you, and seek out another non-believer with whom to engage in what's commonly referred to as "missionary dating".
Church? Really? When I was a Christian I went to churches and all I saw there was old people. It's a good thing I abandoned my religion and don't go there anymore, churches are scary.
Yes, church. Especially the larger, noisier, evangelical churches. They're the kind that attract young people looking for excitement without the risk of committing a 'sin'. Of course, some of that 'excitement' may also involve an after-service hook-up, so that there is no risk of sinning inside the church building.


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17 Dec 2015, 8:05 pm

I've had some success at the local free clinic.


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17 Dec 2015, 8:32 pm

Church? Ha, I used to work at one at 19. Easiest job ever. For 11 months, I was paid to basically sit around and sweep, clean floors and windows, and dust off walls every once in a while. It was a big church too. I basically went to a place that was barely occupied and sat there using my iphone for like 30 minutes at a time while cleaning tables.

I somehow managed to get away with it for 11 months before getting found out lol.



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17 Dec 2015, 8:38 pm

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Church? Ha, I used to work at one at 19. Easiest job ever. For 11 months, I was paid to basically sit around and sweep, clean floors and windows, and dust off walls every once in a while. It was a big church too. I basically went to a place that was barely occupied and sat there using my iphone for like 30 minutes at a time while cleaning tables.

I somehow managed to get away with it for 11 months before getting found out lol.


Well... That's disgusting... :| Thanks for sharing that...


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17 Dec 2015, 11:49 pm

So, um. How would a guy who has social anxiety meet girls?



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18 Dec 2015, 4:48 am

Can you both Asperger's and social anxiety disorder?



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18 Dec 2015, 9:47 am

Idealist wrote:
darkphantomx1 wrote:
Church? Ha, I used to work at one at 19. Easiest job ever. For 11 months, I was paid to basically sit around and sweep, clean floors and windows, and dust off walls every once in a while. It was a big church too. I basically went to a place that was barely occupied and sat there using my iphone for like 30 minutes at a time while cleaning tables. I somehow managed to get away with it for 11 months before getting found out.
Well... That's disgusting... Thanks for sharing that...
It's no less disgusting than pulling down a $70,000 per year salary for just talking for a few hours, one day each week.


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18 Dec 2015, 1:41 pm

Lol Fnord ur a f*****g savage bro.

Church girls be taking missionary trips, missionary trips in my bedroom. I love me some "missionary trips." ;)



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18 Dec 2015, 1:43 pm

^ha ha ha :lol: