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mr_bigmouth_502
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22 Dec 2015, 8:12 am
Sweetleaf wrote:
I think you are thinking of friends with benefits....f***k buddies means you get together to have sex, not much hanging out aside from that. Friends with benefits is people who spend time together as 'friends' and sometimes go further and do intimate things. But IDK I think relationships can be overrated, or some aspects that society may make a big deal of but they can work out and can be satisfying so not necessarily overrated.
See, I always thought that "friends with benefits" was a euphemism for "f**k buddies", or in other words a polite way of putting it. I didn't know there was actually a difference.
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22 Dec 2015, 12:14 pm
mr_bigmouth_502 wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
I think you are thinking of friends with benefits....f***k buddies means you get together to have sex, not much hanging out aside from that. Friends with benefits is people who spend time together as 'friends' and sometimes go further and do intimate things. But IDK I think relationships can be overrated, or some aspects that society may make a big deal of but they can work out and can be satisfying so not necessarily overrated.
See, I always thought that "friends with benefits" was a euphemism for "f**k buddies", or in other words a polite way of putting it. I didn't know there was actually a difference.
Well IDK maybe it is the same thing, I just mostly hear people use 'f**k buddies' negatively like in cases where someone feels used because the other person only spent time with them for sex like people saying 'I wanted a relationship but we only ended up being f**k buddies....friends with benefits I always pictured as rather close friends comfortable with each other enough to do intimate things.
But not sure that is a definite distinction or just how I've mostly heard the terms.
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22 Dec 2015, 12:35 pm
Sweetleaf wrote:
mr_bigmouth_502 wrote:
Sweetleaf wrote:
I think you are thinking of friends with benefits....f***k buddies means you get together to have sex, not much hanging out aside from that. Friends with benefits is people who spend time together as 'friends' and sometimes go further and do intimate things. But IDK I think relationships can be overrated, or some aspects that society may make a big deal of but they can work out and can be satisfying so not necessarily overrated.
See, I always thought that "friends with benefits" was a euphemism for "f**k buddies", or in other words a polite way of putting it. I didn't know there was actually a difference.
Well IDK maybe it is the same thing, I just mostly hear people use 'f**k buddies' negatively like in cases where someone feels used because the other person only spent time with them for sex like people saying 'I wanted a relationship but we only ended up being f**k buddies....friends with benefits I always pictured as rather close friends comfortable with each other enough to do intimate things.
But not sure that is a definite distinction or just how I've mostly heard the terms.
I'm not sure if it's a definite distinction either, but I like the idea of "friends with benefits" the way you put it. It sounds like the perfect type of relationship to me.
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