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kraftiekortie
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20 Jan 2016, 7:27 pm

Dating means two people go places (e.g., a movie, bowling, a diner) with each other to "feel each other out"--get to know each other. Especially when these two people are sitting in a restaurant, they state their case to each other.

People who are dating are attracted to each other sexually (usually)--yet don't always act out on that attraction fully. They might kiss each other. They might "make out." They might hold hands in the street. They might or might not make love (have sex).

None of this physical stuff is obligatory, by the way. It's only properly done if both people consent to it. If you want to be kissed, and somebody wants to kiss you, it's perfect. If you don't want to be kissed, and somebody wants to kiss you, then it's not consent, and the person who wants to kiss you should not kiss you.

If you don't want to be kissed, it's best to tell the person directly that you don't want to be kissed. If you don't want to be touched, it's best to tell the person directly that you don't want to be touched.

Being "in love" means different things to different people.



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22 Jan 2016, 12:09 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
Dating means two people go places (e.g., a movie, bowling, a diner) with each other to "feel each other out"--get to know each other. Especially when these two people are sitting in a restaurant, they state their case to each other.


Thank You! What is feel each other out? And what is state their case? So dating is hanging out? Is making out just mean kissing & touching?

kraftiekortie wrote:
People who are dating are attracted to each other sexually (usually)--yet don't always act out on that attraction fully. They might kiss each other. They might "make out." They might hold hands in the street. They might or might not make love (have sex).

None of this physical stuff is obligatory, by the way. It's only properly done if both people consent to it. If you want to be kissed, and somebody wants to kiss you, it's perfect. If you don't want to be kissed, and somebody wants to kiss you, then it's not consent, and the person who wants to kiss you should not kiss you.

If you don't want to be kissed, it's best to tell the person directly that you don't want to be kissed. If you don't want to be touched, it's best to tell the person directly that you don't want to be touched.

Being "in love" means different things to different people.


I may not needed anytime soon, things may not work out for that guy. :(



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22 Jan 2016, 12:34 am

Honeslty i dont think its wrong, and both of you are adults
Go for it girl, lol



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22 Jan 2016, 12:37 am

When two people state their case, this means that they try to make a good impression with each other. Making out is touching and kissing--Sometimes a little bit more, but not having actual sex. The man might caress a woman's breasts, or a woman might caress a man's tushey.



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22 Jan 2016, 1:19 am

Thanks! I wish I can know for sure if he interested in me or not.