So it's a mess. Spoke w/ her this Saturday, she said she wasn't interested in chatting. I commented about her rudeness on her profile, but naturally she refused to post it (of course; after all nobody would post criticism of themselves on their own profiles...shallow)
So she sent a message out of rage going like this:
"Oh boo hoo.
Look you messaged me numerous times and I didn't reply and i EVEN rejected your messages on OKcupid. That SHOULD tell you I'm not interested. I did that so that wouldn't HAVE to say outright all that crap. That's not...what did you call it...leaving you hanging? lol wtf. And THEN you even went out of your way to punch in [Name removed for privacy sake] on AIM and track me down THAT way...so even if i WAS interested...that would have killed it RIGHT there, because in my book that's stalkerish okay? So you don't have to pull a 10 year old comment like the one you tried to post because you were mad i turned you down. Get over it."
I being most annoyed wrote my own response.
""I'm not interested." That's all it took. If I recall correctly, I even asked if you were still interested in talking and you said "sure." Why did you do that? As for the "10-year-old comment", I never expected you to post it on your wall anyway. After all, the beautiful thing about OKCupid is it allows you to filter out any negative commentary about yourself while only keeping the positive. No, the real reason I posted it was to see if you would do the smart thing and blow it off, or if you would have a fit over it. Finally, you say I'm stalkerish. How so? Because I typed your name on AIM out of curiosity? There was no malicious intent in that."
As of yet, she is ignoring me. Figures. At first I was going to leave it at that then did some snooping around (this would not help my "I'm not a stalker case though"), turns out she's used the exact SN for EVERYTHING from Myspace to Frappr to Digg to...see my point? I found her life story, her home address, her suffering PTSD, her being hospitalized as a kid, etc...in other words, a crapload of emotional baggage. So in a way I'm trying to figure out if I should feel sorry for her or if I should just say "life is s**t. Deal with it." and move on?
20 Apr 2007, 1:20 pm
