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Kitty4670
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04 Feb 2016, 2:20 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I've had women lose interest in me after a few minutes!

But don't worry, Kitty. Any guy who gets to know you won't ever get sick of you.



That's so sweet :oops: :D but I can be hard to be with.



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04 Feb 2016, 5:51 pm

I WANT to GET OVER my crush!



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05 Feb 2016, 12:19 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
I WANT to GET OVER my crush!

Do you really mean that? If so, first step: discontinue visiting his place of work.



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07 Feb 2016, 9:15 pm

nurseangela wrote:
They can lose interest in you in 7 minutes and vice versa. I wouldn't worry about it and just give him some space.


Yeah, that's pretty much the gist of it. Need to make good first impressions and have the energy to follow through with such a personality to actually manage to keep somebody's attention. People can be fickle. :|


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08 Feb 2016, 4:48 am

Kitty4670 wrote:
Can a man lose interest in you in 7 days? This may be a silly question, but I'm worried.


I can lose interest in someone after only glancing at them for a few seconds, or I can be dating someone for months, and then suddenly I feel the need to distance myself from them.

Kitty4670 wrote:
I never had a crush like me, be interested in me & show me he's interested in me, I'm just worried, because this is new to me. I don't know what he sees in me. There are other women that are very beautiful or gorgeous & blonde.


Some men want what society stereotypical considers attractive, while others set their own standards of attraction, and when they wind someone that completes those standards, they've discovered true beauty.

Kitty4670 wrote:
I don't think I'm special.


Good... Because you're not special, none of us are. I have a God complex, and can be very egocentric at times, but even I know that I'm not special, that I'm not the only person in the world who is doing the things that I'm doing, been through what I've been through, and will go through what I'm going through.

You and I Kitty4670 are just two very small gears in a very large machine, one that has existed long before we were born, and will continue to exist long after we are gone, but don't worry. Just because you're not special doesn't mean that you don't have value, that you shouldn't have any self worth, on the contrary, you should feel good about yourself, and your accomplishments. Life is worth living, and if you don't grab it by the horns and take charge then it's liable to run away without you. So feel good about yourself, and strive for greatness, just don't forget to be realistic about it.


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