Kitty4670 wrote:
Can a man lose interest in you in 7 days? This may be a silly question, but I'm worried.
I can lose interest in someone after only glancing at them for a few seconds, or I can be dating someone for months, and then suddenly I feel the need to distance myself from them.
Kitty4670 wrote:
I never had a crush like me, be interested in me & show me he's interested in me, I'm just worried, because this is new to me. I don't know what he sees in me. There are other women that are very beautiful or gorgeous & blonde.
Some men want what society stereotypical considers attractive, while others set their own standards of attraction, and when they wind someone that completes those standards, they've discovered true beauty.
Kitty4670 wrote:
I don't think I'm special.
Good... Because you're not special, none of us are. I have a God complex, and can be very egocentric at times, but even I know that I'm not special, that I'm not the only person in the world who is doing the things that I'm doing, been through what I've been through, and will go through what I'm going through.
You and I Kitty4670 are just two very small gears in a very large machine, one that has existed long before we were born, and will continue to exist long after we are gone, but don't worry. Just because you're not special doesn't mean that you don't have value, that you shouldn't have any self worth, on the contrary, you should feel good about yourself, and your accomplishments. Life is worth living, and if you don't grab it by the horns and take charge then it's liable to run away without you. So feel good about yourself, and strive for greatness, just don't forget to be realistic about it.
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My Autism was cured/treated in late childhood (this makes me a walking, talking, contradiction to 90% of the Forum who all believe Autism is incurable)