Can someone be to ugly to ever find love?

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Sweetleaf
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23 Feb 2016, 1:52 pm

white_as_snow wrote:
Take me for exemple.

I am short, skinny, very red lips, strange hair, bad posture. I have compared myself to others for years and hardly anyone is as ugly as i am. Im starting to think that i am one of the most ugly persons on earth.

How could i ever find love? Why would any women date me?

I dont think even lots of money could help me, my looks is so gross that nobody could find me attractive.

Something so normal as relationships....but a few persons will never have it....becuse nobody find them attractive?


Well everyone here can tell you, you aren't ugly and you probably wont be convinced...so for something a bit more practical. Why don't you get a better hair-cut/style if the one you have is strange or doesn't look good? You might not believe it but sometimes just an improvement in hair style or getting a better cut can make someone look vastly better...and terrible hair could make someone who looks good look terrible.

What color are lips supposed to be? Have people actually complained about your lips being too red...or is that just how you are perceiving it. If it really is that much of a problem you could get some lip stuff that is a more bland skin tone like color and wear that. But I am just having doubts as to how much other people are actually focusing on this and seeing it as a reason you'd be ugly as its not unusual for lips to have a red color.

But given you haven't put up a picture I cant really be a proper judge of appearance, nothing you described though really indicated you're that ugly. I mean no disfigurement, you're not covered in warts are you?


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24 Feb 2016, 12:09 am

Well, ugly/beautiful is very subjective ... sure there are trends (because of culture, mixed with some biology) but one person's ugly is another person's beautiful.

So my answer is no, a person can't be too ugly to ever find love.


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24 Feb 2016, 1:07 am

I've never considered myself very attractive.

My last username on www.pof.com was HoytSchermerhorn and my profile picture was this mugshot selfie I took in a subway station of the same name.

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Some women liked the picture and some didn't.


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