Are autistic guys attracted to autistic girls?

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24 Feb 2016, 3:22 am

DevilKisses wrote:

sly279 wrote:

Confused. 0.o all beards grown on neck along with chin and face. So you don't like men with beards?

Not talking about beards. I'm talking about guys like this.

fat guys with crappy beards?

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24 Feb 2016, 3:45 am

No, autistic girls are green with antennas.

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24 Feb 2016, 4:55 am

Sly: 'Neckbeard' is a slang word for overweight/obese, ugly males who don't take care of their appearance (don't shave or trim beard, don't brush teeth or take care of acne, don't care about weight, don't care about body odor), and are usually lazy males who don't have a job or only do something 'basic' like mcdonalds, spend all their free time on the internet switching between misogynistic virgins who hate women and white knights who claim to be a 'nice guy' on messageboards such as 4chan and reddit, dressing up in badly designed cosplay (costume play for video game/tv/movie/sci-fi/fantasy), and acting like superiror, elitist a55h•les to most people. Typically like to wear fedora hats, thinking it makes them look 'cool'. Tend to be atheist.

They make regular nerds look like hot, popular guys.

Anyway, OP:

That's probably true for me. But I find autistic traits to exist in both 'nerdy' and 'artistic' gals. My taste, as an artistic guy, is more towards nerdy girls, and after some thinking, the traits I desire are definitely aspie-like traits over N.T. ones.

That doesn't mean I've been successful with aspie females, though.

I've only ever met ONE, and the furthest i got with her was three dates before being rejected, and long story short there was a lot of unfortunate events surrounding me and her that in the end, even we decided to be 'just friends', my mental state had deteriorated solely due to the fact she hurt me extremely badly by running-off and getting engaged to a male friend. Don't judge me, you don't know the full details.

Wish they were just more common, though. Or at least more obvious, if more do exist.

There's not even many aspie men OR women here on WP that are Australian. The only one's I've seen that have mentioned it are TheGrandInquisitr AuroraBorealisGazer, RetroGamer and, of course, myself.

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24 Feb 2016, 6:50 am

There are some really cute autistic girls here on WP!

A girl is attractive is attractive, whether autistic or whatever.

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24 Feb 2016, 6:54 am

OP, why are you so concerned about guys lately anyway? Switched already?

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24 Feb 2016, 6:55 am

kraftiekortie wrote:

There are some really cute autistic girls here on WP!

A girl is attractive is attractive, whether autistic or whatever.

Depends on what kind of attraction you mean. If by attractive you mean "really hot", then autism doesn't enter into it. But if you're talking about the person as a whole, beyond appearances, then being autistic or whatever can be a major aspect for or against it.

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24 Feb 2016, 7:15 am

Sabreclaw wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

There are some really cute autistic girls here on WP!

A girl is attractive is attractive, whether autistic or whatever.

Depends on what kind of attraction you mean. If by attractive you mean "really hot", then autism doesn't enter into it. But if you're talking about the person as a whole, beyond appearances, then being autistic or whatever can be a major aspect for or against it.

Lol that's BS. At least if you are saying that autistic girls cannot be 'really hot'. Don't see why not.

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24 Feb 2016, 7:16 am

Cafeaulait wrote:

Sabreclaw wrote:

kraftiekortie wrote:

There are some really cute autistic girls here on WP!

A girl is attractive is attractive, whether autistic or whatever.

Lol that's BS. At least if you are saying that autistic girls cannot be 'really hot'. Don't see why not.

That's not what I said at all. I said that autism does not enter into physical attractiveness.

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24 Feb 2016, 10:32 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

OP, why are you so concerned about guys lately anyway? Switched already?

No. I just like psychology.

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24 Feb 2016, 11:21 am

It's bordering on hate speech to talk derisively about neckbeards here, since the autism spectrum produces so many of them. Luckily it's because they lack self-awareness about it that they are neckbeards in the first place, so they don't know to be offended by the term! While we're being puckish, I'll say that the traditional type that pairs with the "quirky autistic girl" is the depressive, hoodie-wearing writer/musician--maybe that's the kind of person the OP should be looking for.

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24 Feb 2016, 11:57 am

arielhawksquill wrote:

The only guys I could possibly find sexually attractive are more feminine than me. Most neckbeards are just not feminine enough for me. I probably wouldn't be able to date depressive types either. I've been battling depression for ten years. I prefer to be around happy people. I'm naturally happy when I'm not depressed, so I am compatible with happy people.

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24 Feb 2016, 1:13 pm

Googled for images of neckbeards.

They look like the streotype of European Jews.

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24 Feb 2016, 2:05 pm

Outrider wrote:

So lower class guys who work min wage?

That guys picture looks like how most guys beard grows. I don't think a lot of guys have bear lines that go all way up to their eyes.

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24 Feb 2016, 2:41 pm

sly279 wrote:

Outrider wrote:

So lower class guys who work min wage?

That guys picture looks like how most guys beard grows. I don't think a lot of guys have bear lines that go all way up to their eyes.

I don't think that picture was a very good depiction...