Revenge?

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This so called slight would have faded into insignificance as you got older, however you would have done something very stupid as a result, for no good reason, possibly affecting your or their future.

It is quite a narcissistic thing to want seek revenge simply becuase someone changed their mind. Try to have a bit of humility.

Tbh, I doubt you would have got away with it. You are too honest and not cunning enough. It most likely would have backfired, and damaged your reputation. In fact you have provide a lot of identifying information in this thread.

Lucky you came here, perhaps you didn't really want to but was just blowing off steam.

You better get into some therapy so you can learn to deal with your feelings so you don't hurt someone and destroy their life and to overcome your past and so you won't be an unstable person.

I get it, I also don't like anyone treating me bad but there comes times when I should just let it go than turning it into a big deal or I might regret it. You have to know where to draw the line for when someone has actually treated you horribly and to where they didn't treat you wrong at all and what they did was normal and to how they treated you wrong to just let it go and it's not worth the revenge because they have every right to decide who they want to go out with even if it was for a bigoted reason or because they misunderstood you and got it all wrong about you. That would reflect horribly on your part and no one would care how that other person treated you. They would just be looking at your behavior and not care why you are doing it. They would just think how that other person treated you was correct what they did. That is just how most people think.

An event in your life caused you to feel a certain way.

You were hurt and wanted to lash out at the person who hurt you.

You did not.

This is what you take from the experience, the good people in life think thoughts as dark as yours but do not act on them.

I'd buy you a beer if I lived in the same continent.

I could stop myself from doing it, but I am really waiting for the moment that some people will humiliate themselves. I mean, they were like this: http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/M ... AlphaBitch

To them, I was the one among us who was too silly to amount to anything academically.