What unusual things are attractive to you in a partner?

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Kurds are probably the only people in the Middle East who have a visible number of redheads.

I have seen few local redhead Armenians but they're considered ethnically (indigenously Whites) and culturally Europeans.

I like skinny girls but I've never dated a girl who wasn't overweight

Last time I remember, you looked fat to me.

You can't expect skinny girls to like you if you are overweight yourself

Oooooh, that's harsh. But fair. Turning your nose up to fat people if you yourself are fat is probably not going to pay off.

You are right. Thin girls a always with thin guys. Maybe those guys have more self-control than me. I'm about 80 pounds lighter than I used to be but I'm still too fat. No wonder I don't get to date skinny girls.

Woah, check out all of the redhead love !
Goes to show that it pays to be a mutant.


My list:
-A rational debater who doesn't use logical fallacies
-Witty/sarcastic/morbid/dry humor
-Very selective with the people he befriends
-Has truly unique view points and says odd things
-Curious/Science lover
-Finds most people detestable or boring
-Cat lover
-Not overly muscular or interested in sports

I have a thing for red heads too. I would prefer someone whose hair is a darker shade of red rather than orange but it doesnt matter . I like a girl with dark red hair, pale skin and dark green emerald eyes. Also, i have always found buck teeth or large front teeth adorable.

I dont know if this is what the op had in mine but i would also like it if a potential girlfriend is extremely ticklish.

No, not always...wouldn't describe my boyfriend as thin.

I like girls with sleeve tattoos, especially in a Nordic motif (Valkyrie wings and such). Don't know what exactly triggered it. It could have been a fling I had some years ago; she had sleeve tattoos I found strangely intriguing. She also had an "I like you [@ me], but I have a beef with society" attitude that touched my heart, not to mention a very non-threatening presence. What's ironic about my attraction is that I have no tattoos of my own and wouldn't dream of getting one.

In a nutshell, I'm attracted to Suicide Girls. I hate the term (why would they be called that?), but love the look.

if they are into metalworking/blacksmithing/welding/etc. i have a huge metal fetish.
but if they have anything specific that they are skilled at and passionate about its super hot even if it isn't related to metal.
sadists and masochists.
awkwardness.

I LOVE men who have long, beautiful hair. It's a plus if it's thick and fun to play with.

I also seem to have a thing for big noses. No wonder why I like my bf's nose! I can't wait until I can pinch it.

I really like it when guys are not stereotypically masculine. There's nothing wrong with being a feminine man or at least having a feminine side. We all have a soft spot for something. Being affectionate is amazing too.

I would talk about what kind of women I like, but it's not that unusual.

I really like sensitive guys. Not the kind of fragile person who cries all the time, but the kind of man who, deep down, loves animals, children and cute things ; and even more, who values empathy, altruism, feelings. But it's sad that these qualities are often shamed and called feminine. I don't feel like they are. They're one of the things that make a man attractive, and certainly not less masculine !

Whenever I see women saying that stuff, I would be like "Yeah, right" sarcastically, I simply really don't believe them, and I don't believe you either.
In fact, the moment a man shows a weakness or a vulnerability ie. crying, he gets scorned and get labeled crybaby or whiner by women. I see women in general as being very intolerant toward men's expressions of weakness, they expect men to show positive feelings all the time (like the one you mentioned, loving animals..etc but never weakness).

In my experience, every time I talk about some insecurity to a woman (whether female friend or FWB or whatever) I get dismissed by it and she would be like "be confident" , "it's in your head"..etc. Always very dismissive. Every time I regret opening my mouth about it.

Most of you want the typical manly men showing no weakness and no insecurity, stop lying to yourselves....

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has to be able to appreciate the humor of the cartoonist named Callahan.

Face of Boo, if you believe that women like insensitive jerks, that's your belief only. That kind of man would have zero chance with me if I were looking for someone. There's nothing more repulsive than insensitivity or selfishness and I'm totally unable to feel the slightest attraction to such a man, I never dated one. Feelings aren't a weakness (and wanting to kill emotions as if they were a flaw is very often a sign of an insecure personality), on the contrary, they're a wonderful quality.
People rarely like to date persons who are sad or depressed all the time, it's something completely different. People want only to date positive and joyful persons who smile all the time to a point where it's sometimes ridiculous, and it's the same even for friendships. I lost "friends" at all periods of my life where I was sad.