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That is another problem. In similar approach, women tells me it is too early to ask them on a date. They say to me its rushing to go a date unless you are friends first.

When women who are not your friends say they 'only want to be friends' first, that's their way of rejecting you because they are not interested.

Sorry.

You probably had nothing to do with it.

What are some of you're special interest? Depending on what they are you can definitely use that to your advantage. Let's say you like comic books. You can go to a Comic Con Convention or maybe to a local comic book stores and talk to the girls there. You shouldn't have a problem talking to them cause they share you're special interest for the most part so you can easily approach them and then before parting ways get her name and say you guys should meet up again sometime. You catch my drift? Whatever you're special interests are see if you can use that to your advantage. It's what I do and it works for the most part.

I am way way way past that acknowledgement but thank you for your tip.

Like I have said many times about special interests and common interest that I am involved in. I am part of many environmental groups including Oxfam, lots of meetup groups and that. I have enough of special interests to fill in my spare time in a week in between commitments such as chores, work, study, see family and that.

I have been doing this since the beginning of last year when I first moved here to begin a new life. I never made many friends as much I have done for entire life.

Seems all of your special interests are very serious, I mean being active in environmentalism is fine...but as I said if you don't do anything besides work, study, chores and all your hobbies/activites are all serious things it will make it look like you don't have time for a relationship. Do you do anything for fun/enjoyment or is it all business all the time?

And if you have friends you obviously aren't 'past acknowledgement' people obviously notice you exist.

Its both fun enjoyment and business stuff. Everyone in my friends circle do both sides. So I copied their social and communication strategies by the type of environment. Lot of my female friends told me they don't have time to have boyfriends and that. Though I find it obvious they go parties and go late at night. I think it just young minds prefer drinking party environments for their different kind of fun, but terrible end results of cancers, headaches, liver damage and so on. My fun is play with the campaigns like the environmental stuff I do, play board games, go on adventures and such etc.