Are we talking specifically about IRL? If that is the case I can say I've been asked out maybe 6 times in my life, and they weren't all the most pleasant experiences, or may have been up until a certain point where a relationship did not result or guy ended up scaring me away.
There was one I considered going on more dates, they seemed like a cool fellow cannabis user, then they started going on about Christianity and how its the one truth and the end of the world caused me to lose interest. Or this one I met at a bus stop and gave him my number intending to meet him next time I was around his area, but then he started non-stop texting me and started seeming aggressive when I told him to slow it down a little bit, and was angry at my insistence we needed to get to know each other before I could decide if I wanted a relationship with him.
Can't say exactly how many messages I've got on okcupid, or out of those which ones I'd count as being comparable to actually asking out, rather than seeming to want a hook up or ones that seemed suspiciously like scams. But I certainly wasn't getting new messeges every day or even every week.
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