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Really hurts to come here and have people deny it all and say I'm crazy and it's all my fault,all sleeps fault. No one else, like I love on a planet alone and not one where people's actions effect others.

See the thing is I'm approaching women who make the same as me and have similar interests. As boo and many others have said women date up.somwho does a guy at the bottom of the income bracket date? There's no one below me.

My old friends always told me no woman would date me. My one friend has become more angry against women and doesn't date because they only want money and love doesn't exist. He also doesn't like me much as I'm on ssi.

The therapist I did go pushed me to find a job because he also knew women don't date poor guys, but best job I can get with no experience or degree and only being able to work part time is min wage. I spent years trying to find a job that paid $15 I had to give up and the. Spent year trying to find any job. Lucky to have gotten his job becaus ,oat people don't stay in it. It pays min wage and it's experience counts toward nothing.mincant even transfer departments. Only store that has a clearance associate. So I can't use the experience to get another job. And if I did I'd just be another min wage job. Only chance to get paid more would be Costco and they on,y pay $14 and it's highly come and ,most people never leave.

I'm 28 on ssi and work part time min wage at s retail store. That's my life and probably all its going be and I'm so very lucky to have the job. If they let me go i dont know what'll I do and they may be being bought out by another company :s

Why won't women who work retail min wage date me? Why do they demand middle class guys and how is it that's ok but a guy wanting to date another min wage woman is aiming too high? Why the double standard

Why aren't aspie women supportive to aspie men as aspie men are to aspie women.

I try to be very supportive even to ones mad at men I don't want to hurt anyone some lie sometimes becaus pemive learned it's better Tom,ale someone feel,better then tell them the truth as you see it.

Some people are so spiritually poor that they think money equals wealth.

Not really or there wouldn't be dating sites full of them. There would be disabled dating sites. Do you really think most women are open to dating poor disabled men? Honestly

I've seen lots of exceptions to the rule. Kicking your computer shouldn't fix it, I've seen it.does that mean people very where should kick their computer to fix it?

Some people pull through when they shouldn't millions others die.

No doubt some poor me do get gfs, doesn't mean most do. This forum is full of poor disabled men who can't get a gf, you'd like us to beleive it's the exception and dating sites don't make millions off or poor single men who stay single, there's a multi million if not billion dollar industry based off single men if women were so accepting the. Most would pair up and dating sites would be in trouble.

I've tried poor women, college women, fat women, thin women, women who have no job or college and live at home. One thing I see women of any background have in common dis wanting a guy with a decent Job or a guy who's finically stable(middle class)

But you all here accuse me and other men of just going after middle class thin women who are out of our league, that's the only possible reason. But many of us tell you we aren't. So you say we are lying. You'd rather hurt us to accept any possibility of women being in the wrong. All while blaming men who want thin beautiful women and accusing us of being one.

It boggles my mind. Then at same time few of you go into the women's section and complain about how women are mean and superficial to you. The very same things we men complain about and you defend. 0.o

I could never defend a guy I don't know over any of you women here.

Wish it worked that way. I've tried, I've bought so much stuf, wasted so much money on objects, chasing that money buys happiness idea.
It only brings momentary happiness for me.

^ I think you missed what I said.

How so?

You answered your own question:

Isn't that what people are doing by dating up?
Chasing the whole money buys happiness idea?

You've done the same thing, only you realise that kind of happiness isn't lasting.
Not everyone is so insightful.

I really don't think that your problem is that you are poor.

Well it is. I look at thousands of profiles and lot of them I have all they say they want but money, car and house.

So tell me how when women say I'm not good enough because I don't make enough(even on wp) that that's not what my problem is?

your not here, your not reading their profiles, your not having them tell you you don't make enough. How would you know ?

Why can't you amuse the fact it is and offer help as if it is the problem. How do I find women who don't care about money and would even date a homeless guy?

Where are the other sweet leafs

Instead of telling me I'm wrong and making it all up which isn't helpful one bit and victim blaming.

I'd be the first person want to be wrong, I grew up hearing love and romance stories from a i love you and media. All I want in life is to romance, pleasure and make a woman happy as best I can. That's it. Maybe making people,happy isn't considered ambitious to most. But it's what I enjoy doing. I also desire to be touched like most people do, to be hugged and loved and wanted.

I'd like to have a lady who loves me for me so I can feel good and enjoy my job helping people. I only want from a woman what the same stuff I'd give. Unconditional love. I don't care about a woman's job. I wouldn't care if she made way more then me. If she makes less then me or heck if she has no job at all. I just want to lover her and her love me. Together we could fight the world. Maybe we'll never be rich but i dont know and I don't really want kids so and if we did the. We'd make do like poor families have for generations.

If you are going to insist on using dating sites to find women, then you are going to deal with the types of people who use dating sites. They are going to screen people based upon what they want to see. In real life, people don't have access to all of that information to immediately rule someone out, so that they are more likely to try to get to know someone better.

You aren't a victim just because you can't find someone. Nobody is wronging you by refusing to date you. You aren't entitled to have anyone date you. That's not the way that the world works.

yep wanting love if your a guy equals entitlement,

Just leave me alone.

I never see you telling women they're entitled when they want love and guys won't date them. Only guys.

World lesson to you, every ducking person wants to be loved. That's not entitlement that's basic human desire.

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So for the others who ask why I don't feel I deserve love
It's people like her who are why because when I or others complain or show desire for love she says we feel entitled. That feeling that you deserved to be loved is entitlement

You claimed that you are a victim. Not getting dates doesn't make you a victim, sorry.

You are blaming women for your lack of dates. That's not complaining, that's blaming others for your problems. No person is required to date you for any reason. You have to have qualities that they want, and you have to be able to show that you have them.

I never saw anyone on WP saying that you aren't good enough because you don't make enough money.

I'm thinking that it's more of an attitude problem than anything else.

Most poor people I knew dated each other. Including those working minimum-wage retail jobs. Only a few women married up, and some married down.

I'm a victim of this horrible society and encomici system that makes me unloveable

Leave me alone

Omg you don't get it do you I was happy before I tried to date women. Now I'm not. Cause an effect not effect and cause. Women never even talk to me to see. Y attitude. My profile has been written and edited by women so nope not there, on,y thing holding me back is unless I get decent job they won't let me message them.

A job requires anyone to have a highschool diploma. John can't get one on,y a ged. Is it johns attitude or the fact he doesn't have w diploma why he can't get the Job? It's the f*****g lack of a diploma. But you'd say it's his attitude that he should just go in to the job interviewer over and over despit being told he lacks the diploma required to get the job by the boss. That's crAzy.

You're a woman. You're never get it. As your never be in my shoes facing such discrimination. Only option I have is to die because this is it this is the best f*****g job I can get. If I'd been born normal then at least I'd could of worked construction or hell I could have became a mechanic with my diploma. But like most aspie males I born wrong and min wage is the best most of us can do if we're lucky. They don't just give away disability claims.

Why do you care so much. Why must you defend every woman. I don't want to date you never where I fail to see how this is any of your concern. Unless you'd only date men who make middle class money this isn't against you. I don't understand why you feel the need to put me down.

Being born a woman doesn't make you the expert on all women everywhere.

I know more about women in are where I've lived all. H life then you could. Same as you'd know more about men where you live then k ever could.

Because you're ranting, making generalizations about women, about those in the middle class, and suggesting that it's the fault of society that you can't get a date. That's how it's my concern.

I'm not sure how I'm putting you down by pointing out those things.

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