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04 May 2016, 6:47 pm

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thanks for the replies everyone. My friend did threaten to kill his girlfriend, yes. I threatened to kill my girlfriend and terrified her, but forced her to leave me shortly after even thought she wanted me back.

Thanks for confirming it isn't normal.


Why did yoI feel the need to do it? If you have anger issues you should seek help

Alliekit, have you never been to Liverpool?



Nope the furthest north Ive been is Birmingham. Not sure I want to go further than that hahahhaa. Should I be glad I haven't ? :D

And the vid is brilliant! I love Harry Enfield! The Americans amount us may be confused by it haha



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04 May 2016, 6:49 pm

I've been to Liverpool. It has a great art museum. Surprisingly, I didn't go down to the Cavern, where the Beatles used to play.



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04 May 2016, 6:50 pm

Alliekit wrote:
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thanks for the replies everyone. My friend did threaten to kill his girlfriend, yes. I threatened to kill my girlfriend and terrified her, but forced her to leave me shortly after even thought she wanted me back.

Thanks for confirming it isn't normal.


Why did yoI feel the need to do it? If you have anger issues you should seek help


I really don't know. People ignore me or avoid me on the street because of what I did to her. I hit her and yelled at her before then. My friends normalise torturing their ex girlfriends, grating their faces and putting indian ink in it etc but ive come to realise it is unnormal.



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04 May 2016, 6:53 pm

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I've been to Liverpool. It has a great art museum. Surprisingly, I didn't go down to the Cavern, where the Beatles used to play.

It does have a lot of history.

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Nope the furthest north Ive been is Birmingham. Not sure I want to go further than that hahahhaa. Should I be glad I haven't ? :D

It has a bad rep but the place is okay. I just wanted to add some comic relief to an otherwise spooky thread about potential domestic abuse.


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04 May 2016, 6:55 pm

TheSpectrum wrote:
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I've been to Liverpool. It has a great art museum. Surprisingly, I didn't go down to the Cavern, where the Beatles used to play.

It does have a lot of history.

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Nope the furthest north Ive been is Birmingham. Not sure I want to go further than that hahahhaa. Should I be glad I haven't ? :D

It has a bad rep but the place is okay. I just wanted to add some comic relief to an otherwise spooky thread about potential domestic abuse.


Talking of reps, I'm from Essex hahaha



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04 May 2016, 6:55 pm

Those women must not have any guns. :mrgreen:

Time for me to celebrate my singleness (and that I live in a pro-gun state) and go exercise!


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04 May 2016, 6:56 pm

Boggles my mind as I'd never do this but I'm worthless to women and guys who abuse or threaten get gfs all the time. Are lots of women attracted to violence ?

I dont know, thrusting violence and actually actin on it(fights) seems to be consider ok by many people. There's whole sports surrounding violence . I'm rather passive. It's not legally ok that's for sure,nor morally ok.

Hopefully the girls stay clear of your friend in the future.



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04 May 2016, 7:02 pm

What the hell did I just read?


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04 May 2016, 7:05 pm

This thread is very humorous to me, thanks OP.

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It's worse than abnormal; it's a crime.


Its actually not abnormal to commit a crime otherwise we wouldn't have prisons. Its normal enough to have a fair amount of the population engaged in such activities.



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04 May 2016, 7:06 pm

You've abused and assaulted your girlfriend?!

How could you?



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04 May 2016, 7:07 pm

dcj123 wrote:
This thread is very humorous to me, thanks OP.

YippySkippy wrote:
It's worse than abnormal; it's a crime.


Its actually not abnormal to commit a crime otherwise we wouldn't have prisons. Its normal enough to have a fair amount of the population engaged in such activities.


That doesn't mean it is acceptable though.



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04 May 2016, 7:08 pm

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You've abused and assaulted your girlfriend?!

How could you?


just a breakdown in people caring for me. I wrecked the only person who loved me.



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04 May 2016, 7:10 pm

peopleusedtospitatme wrote:
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You've abused and assaulted your girlfriend?!

How could you?


just a breakdown in people caring for me. I wrecked the only person who loved me.


Honestly you should get some help. It will be good for you and others



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04 May 2016, 7:19 pm

peopleusedtospitatme wrote:
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You've abused and assaulted your girlfriend?!

How could you?
just a breakdown in people caring for me. I wrecked the only person who loved me.
Now you're glibly blaming others for something you did!

Do you not realize how lame that is?


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04 May 2016, 7:21 pm

I already wrecked my ex's life. I m never going to have another girlfriend. Im better now. Thanks for confirming its not normal.



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04 May 2016, 7:26 pm

Fnord wrote:
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You've abused and assaulted your girlfriend?!

How could you?
just a breakdown in people caring for me. I wrecked the only person who loved me.
Now you're glibly blaming others for something you did!

Do you not realize how lame that is?


Im not blaming her, its the reason i give myself. I thought she would leave me so I destroyed her pscyhologically before she did.