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01 May 2007, 4:37 am

I'm almost 30. I'm currently single and probably always will be. :( I have a hard time even imagining what it is like to be in a relationship. It's a dream I dare not have.



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01 May 2007, 4:38 am

Single :(



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01 May 2007, 4:51 am

Ohhhh c-mon you's its not that bad being single, if you were in a relationship you would alway be restricted untill you broke up or something. Of course being in one would have its advantages but that can only go soo far.


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01 May 2007, 4:52 am

zombie wrote:
Ohhhh c-mon you's its not that bad being single, if you were in a relationship you would alway be restricted untill you broke up or something. Of course being in one would have its advantages but that can only go soo far.

I wouldn't mind being single if I thought it was a temporary thing. The sad thing is, it's probably permanent. :(



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01 May 2007, 4:58 am

Sopho_Soph wrote:
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Ohhhh c-mon you's its not that bad being single, if you were in a relationship you would alway be restricted untill you broke up or something. Of course being in one would have its advantages but that can only go soo far.

I wouldn't mind being single if I thought it was a temporary thing. The sad thing is, it's probably permanent. :(


Yea that is a bad point of being single i guess, awwwh now i dont wanna be single, *throws hat on floor and jumps around*
There is always dating sites :D


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01 May 2007, 5:08 am

zombie wrote:
There is always dating sites :D


Like they're any help?



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01 May 2007, 5:10 am

calandale wrote:
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There is always dating sites :D


Like they're any help?


To be honest i wouldnt know :D ive never actually used one.


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01 May 2007, 5:24 am

zombie wrote:
calandale wrote:
zombie wrote:
There is always dating sites :D


Like they're any help?


To be honest i wouldnt know :D ive never actually used one.


I'm pretty convinced that real life is better for me.
I tried for a bit, and like with a job application,
you get filtered out of anything you'd want at
my age. But, IRL I can at least attract attentions
of cute young things.



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01 May 2007, 5:25 am

Nothing works for me.
No one loves me.
I'll be alone forever.
I'm feeling sorry for myself.



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01 May 2007, 5:34 am

Sopho_Soph wrote:
Nothing works for me.
No one loves me.
I'll be alone forever.
I'm feeling sorry for myself.


Oh your not gonna be alone forever, give it a few years and you will find someone. :D :D


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01 May 2007, 7:53 am

I am in a relationship, and my first relationship was when I was 16. It can be difficult sometimes, because sometimes I feel like my partner doesn't understand me. However, we always work through things, and he clarifies things for me so that I'm not utterly confused.



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01 May 2007, 8:56 am

Sopho_Soph wrote:
Nothing works for me.
No one loves me.
I'll be alone forever.
I'm feeling sorry for myself.


I know how you feel :(

Although the feeling sorry for myself generally comes in fits and starts. Usually I'm fine with being alone... but after almost 28 years, it's starting to get a little wearing. And lately it hurts really badly :cry:

I tell you what, though... the next person that tells me "don't worry, there's plenty more fish in the sea" will get their eyeballs pulled out and fried in ginger. I can't find the fish if I don't have any idea how to use a fishing rod, dammit!


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01 May 2007, 8:58 am

MrSinister wrote:
Sopho_Soph wrote:
Nothing works for me.
No one loves me.
I'll be alone forever.
I'm feeling sorry for myself.


I know how you feel :(

Although the feeling sorry for myself generally comes in fits and starts. Usually I'm fine with being alone... but after almost 28 years, it's starting to get a little wearing. And lately it hurts really badly :cry:

:( Yeh, me too, a lot of the time I'm OK with it, I don't mind being single right now. It's just the prospect of being single forever that I don't like.



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01 May 2007, 9:02 am

The worst part of it is that it's a feedback loop.
The more that you feel needy and unloved, the
less likely that others will find you attractive.
Sometimes, you just have to fool yourself
into believing that you are good enough.
By doing so, you make yourself so.



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01 May 2007, 9:03 am

Sopho_Soph wrote:
Nothing works for me.
No one loves me.
I'll be alone forever.
I'm feeling sorry for myself.


that's the wrong additude your a beautiful girl with a lot to offer :P
I know you feel like that sometimes, I feel like that too-but you can't give up hope hon'
your special someone is out there



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01 May 2007, 9:04 am

Sopho_Soph wrote:
:( Yeh, me too, a lot of the time I'm OK with it, I don't mind being single right now. It's just the prospect of being single forever that I don't like.


See, if I could rid myself of the need for companionship, I'd be completely fine. I have always preferred being by myself. Always. It was when puberty hit that things went south very very fast :(


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