Shaved head attractive to the opposite sex?

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Well, that's how Baltimore girls are.

Damn. I can see all the criticism against shaved heads in here.

I personally like to shave my head myself.

I just wait until it gets too long, and then shave it down till there's not much left.

I've started to in recent years feel insecure about it.

I confidently didn't care what it made others think of me but it's a look associated with skinheads and gangsters.

I've always worn my blue cap regardless of hair length, but it just looks awkwardly shaped and my shaved head still shows through when it's on.

But I could just never go for the stylized hair look. Looks too effeminate to me, any sort of gels are sensory issues, and, when my hair is long enough to actually style, I'm use to my forehead being covered by that point so stylizing my hair to make it naked also gives me stimulant issues. When my hair is short however, I'm use to my forehead being uncovered.

I don't want to just shave some of it when it gets too long - I always feel like hair and nails just grow too fast, so I always just rather have it all off so it'll be some time before I have to shave it off again.

"The bald/beard look doesn't work for you, because you're too damn skinny for it."

Well, there ain't much I can do about the 'skinny' part right now, but to be honest my goal body is only a modest 5'9'' 165lbs 8% body fat.

"but who cares? Women are better when they are more mature and women in their 20s are more likely to like Justin Beiber."

Haha, I'm actually glad than to weed out the children liking their One Direction boy band looks in young men.

Australian young men fashion is so effeminate and metrosexual, I've always preferred a 'traditionally masculine' look (and you've seen my fashion threads to show this).

Meanwhile in Oz the common young male look is $2 flat canvas shoes, pink or reddish-pink or white or black v-neck t-shirts with the little pocket on it they don't use, black shades, over-stylized hair (think pompadours and such), cargo pants a little too far above the knee, black shin socks.

I can...see the appeal, but it looks much sillier than they think it does.

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I think you've noticed the gay men more because the men approach while the women don't. Not because you only attract gay men"

I agree. I'm bisexual and working on this myself. We learn to pick-up signs of possible homosexuality and learn to confidently be the one who initiates.

However, this is getting harder and harder in Australia as most young males today look effeminate or have the hipster look (which I'm not attracted to). They throw-off whatever 'gay-dar' I had.

You know the funny thing is, black women seem to go for the shaved head, beard and big muscle look when it comes to white guys. It's a good think I like women of all races lol.

I have no objection to shaved heads per se.

It's just a risk.

I wouldn't look good with a shaved head, for example--because I have a big head.

This is me from 4 years ago with a shaved head. I don't think I look bad.

And here's me with short hair, that I'll probably go back to. I hate going to get my hair cut.

I can agree with this.

Maybe it's because I'm black myself, though (mixed).

But they're definitely still drawn to me when my hairs shaved and beard is long, or even when I have a bit of excess body fat from lean-bulking.

They also tend to be more confident and more likely to approach than white women.

I was catcalled just by getting the mail shirtless by a group of them, and they're actually more likely to give me looks and show signs of attraction when I'm out and about.

White girls never show any signs.

I could approach if I really wanted to, but never have so far as I only like to approach if they show ANY sort of interest first and I am interested back as that makes the job easier.

Maybe I'm hoping for too much?

I'm attracted to the look of mixed black girls, its just their personalities I tend to not be fond of from first impressions.

"It's just a risk."

Not to be racist, but I think it works better with black people or Latino people.

It's typically a look they go far, because it works.

It definitely works for me...at least I think it does.

Lol. With a shaved head and beard, and over-sized suit and pants, I looked a bit like Pitbull at the senior dance.

Anyway, this is what I look like w/shaved head (1mnth ago):

Yeah, I migrated there because of users on here like starvingartist. I sort of migrated back here, since the thread count is so much lower compared to this site. Yeah, I wanted to do PT but since I'm 28 and it's about damn time I move out, I'm going to be an MRI Technologist instead and spend a lot less time in school. I was thinking of being a pharmacist, but what good is making $110,000 a year when you have to spend most of your time at work?