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07 Jul 2016, 5:17 pm

^ My point is that, in my experience, initiating texting with a woman you like is a waste of time.

If she's really interested, she will.



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07 Jul 2016, 5:43 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Nowadays, saying Hi to a woman would be considered trying to get in her pants.

Best headache-free solution: Never to initiate any talk to women.


You know this women taught me alot now instead of me assuming a guy that says hi is just saying hi I now know he just wants into my knickers :thumright:

Then I shall tell them to have a good night to put them off :roll:

Seriously who comes up with this stuff



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07 Jul 2016, 5:46 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ My point is that, in my experience, initiating texting with a woman you like is a waste of time.

If she's really interested, she will.
How about a gay man, you're not interested at all?


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07 Jul 2016, 6:52 pm

Alliekit wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Nowadays, saying Hi to a woman would be considered trying to get in her pants.

Best headache-free solution: Never to initiate any talk to women.


You know this women taught me alot now instead of me assuming a guy that says hi is just saying hi I now know he just wants into my knickers :thumright:

Then I shall tell them to have a good night to put them off :roll:

Seriously who comes up with this stuff

Hi, Alliekit.



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07 Jul 2016, 7:03 pm

Every girl I've gone out with has friend zoned me so I can't tell the difference.



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07 Jul 2016, 9:02 pm

CommanderKeen wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Nowadays, saying Hi to a woman would be considered trying to get in her pants.

Best headache-free solution: Never to initiate any talk to women.


You know this women taught me alot now instead of me assuming a guy that says hi is just saying hi I now know he just wants into my knickers :thumright:

Then I shall tell them to have a good night to put them off :roll:

Seriously who comes up with this stuff

Hi, Alliekit.


How dare you sir, I say goodnight to you



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08 Jul 2016, 4:18 am

Alliekit wrote:
CommanderKeen wrote:
Alliekit wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Nowadays, saying Hi to a woman would be considered trying to get in her pants.

Best headache-free solution: Never to initiate any talk to women.


You know this women taught me alot now instead of me assuming a guy that says hi is just saying hi I now know he just wants into my knickers :thumright:

Then I shall tell them to have a good night to put them off :roll:

Seriously who comes up with this stuff

Hi, Alliekit.


How dare you sir, I say goodnight to you

:lol:



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08 Jul 2016, 5:21 am

ShesGone wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ My point is that, in my experience, initiating texting with a woman you like is a waste of time.

If she's really interested, she will.
How about a gay man, you're not interested at all?


Sadly, not.

I envy you. :lol:



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08 Jul 2016, 2:20 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Nowadays, saying Hi to a woman would be considered trying to get in her pants.

Best headache-free solution: Never to initiate any talk to women.

Then how would conversations exist? In this society, men seem expected to be the ones to initiate everything.



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08 Jul 2016, 4:26 pm

saxgeek wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Nowadays, saying Hi to a woman would be considered trying to get in her pants.

Best headache-free solution: Never to initiate any talk to women.

Then how would conversations exist? In this society, men seem expected to be the ones to initiate everything.


Things are changing, few years later and girls will have no choice but to start do the approaching first.

We, guys, are done.

I explained more here: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=320263


Recently, all the relationships that I am seeing developing obviously started from the female side.



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14 Jul 2016, 4:16 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
saxgeek wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Nowadays, saying Hi to a woman would be considered trying to get in her pants.

Best headache-free solution: Never to initiate any talk to women.

Then how would conversations exist? In this society, men seem expected to be the ones to initiate everything.


Things are changing, few years later and girls will have no choice but to start do the approaching first.

We, guys, are done.

I explained more here: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=320263


Recently, all the relationships that I am seeing developing obviously started from the female side.


I don't think girls care about being in relationships as much as guys, so I don't think you are going to see girls approaching guys in droves. And there will always be those guys who love talking to women and will approach them to do so.



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14 Jul 2016, 6:40 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ My point is that, in my experience, initiating texting with a woman you like is a waste of time.

If she's really interested, she will.


But I'm a girl and the other girls keep telling me to wait for HIM to initiate... So this is a bit of a fix. :lol:



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15 Jul 2016, 1:16 am

IncredibleFrog wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ My point is that, in my experience, initiating texting with a woman you like is a waste of time.

If she's really interested, she will.


But I'm a girl and the other girls keep telling me to wait for HIM to initiate... So this is a bit of a fix. :lol:


You might die single if you get too stubborn on this.



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15 Jul 2016, 1:53 am

Chronos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
saxgeek wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Nowadays, saying Hi to a woman would be considered trying to get in her pants.

Best headache-free solution: Never to initiate any talk to women.

Then how would conversations exist? In this society, men seem expected to be the ones to initiate everything.


Things are changing, few years later and girls will have no choice but to start do the approaching first.

We, guys, are done.

I explained more here: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=320263


Recently, all the relationships that I am seeing developing obviously started from the female side.


I don't think girls care about being in relationships as much as guys, so I don't think you are going to see girls approaching guys in droves. And there will always be those guys who love talking to women and will approach them to do so.

Yes, men will always ask because changing to a passive role will always decrease their chances. The more men would switch to a passive role, the bigger advantage those who keep asking would have.



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15 Jul 2016, 2:06 am

Chronos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
saxgeek wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Nowadays, saying Hi to a woman would be considered trying to get in her pants.

Best headache-free solution: Never to initiate any talk to women.

Then how would conversations exist? In this society, men seem expected to be the ones to initiate everything.


Things are changing, few years later and girls will have no choice but to start do the approaching first.

We, guys, are done.

I explained more here: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=320263


Recently, all the relationships that I am seeing developing obviously started from the female side.


I don't think girls care about being in relationships as much as guys, so I don't think you are going to see girls approaching guys in droves. And there will always be those guys who love talking to women and will approach them to do so.


Yeah riiiight. :roll:

Maybe you don't, but they usually do get worried a lot...especially when they get past mid 30s.



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15 Jul 2016, 10:44 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Chronos wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
saxgeek wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
^ Nowadays, saying Hi to a woman would be considered trying to get in her pants.

Best headache-free solution: Never to initiate any talk to women.

Then how would conversations exist? In this society, men seem expected to be the ones to initiate everything.


Things are changing, few years later and girls will have no choice but to start do the approaching first.

We, guys, are done.

I explained more here: viewtopic.php?f=6&t=320263


Recently, all the relationships that I am seeing developing obviously started from the female side.


I don't think girls care about being in relationships as much as guys, so I don't think you are going to see girls approaching guys in droves. And there will always be those guys who love talking to women and will approach them to do so.


Yeah riiiight. :roll:

Maybe you don't, but they usually do get worried a lot...especially when they get past mid 30s.


I think only the ones who had always been trying for a relationship start to worry when they get past their mid 30's. But generally, I think women care a lot less about being in a relationship than a man does.