Aspie talks but ignores my post?

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Can you define "flirting"

I flirted with a woman today. She's a judge.

I told her that she "looks graceful" when she promenades in the Halls of Justice.

She was delighted.

As example toward me I told him that another person said that told me to get a switch for him.. He said he wasn't going to run because that sounded fun (getting spanked). Later on he invited my brother and I over to play some word games... While sitting on his bed.. And that's when he was playfully trying to get me to use his name as an answer to "things that are naturally hot". And even just his stance when he speaks to me.. Chin lowered toward his chest with eyes directed up to me. In the example I saw with my friend he chose to sit across from her when a group went to dinner. He did the same thing of lowering his head and leaned toward her. He seemed absorbed in her words and complimented/commented about how much his daughter liked her. I asked her about it later and she said he does flirt with her and to be cautious... she's not interested in him at all

Yeah....seems flirtatious to me. I wouldn't respond to that type of flirtation, though.

I like other types.

Oh my! Well, this is disturbing news! I was hoping you two had started dating by now, and that's why I had heard nothing... I don't like the sound of this. I would definitely be caucious about this one. Have you seen him flert with your friend, or are you getting this info from her only? This sounds fishy to me, so I want to find out whether you've heard him flerting or did she just tell you he did.

Doesn't sound great to be honest . . . . . Unusual for aspies to play games (from what I understand) so maybe ask him?

Yep....ask him.

It might not be "games." It might be shyness.

Or it might be reluctance to commit.

Aren't you a married man? Seems a bit cheeky to be flirting with other women.

I was there during the episode at dinner with friends and saw it happen right in front of me

She flirts with men, too. It's all in good fun.

Yikes! Outch! Yeah, I would confront him then, and ask him straight up what his deal is, and be direct! I'm really sorry. That's a tough one! I've been there and it sucks. I feel for ya.