04 Jul 2016, 8:38 pm
Frequency is also an issue.
I have a pretty sexy voice - at first it was flattering when people would compliment me on it. Genuinely flattering. Then it started to get repetitive, though I always smiled and thanked people because they were trying to get nice. These days it is just downright creepy and sexually harassing, especially when it happens in the middle of the workplace or during job interviews.
The fact that you don't mind when a woman slaps your ass probably has a huge amount to do with the extremely limited number of times women have slapped your ass. 
04 Jul 2016, 9:09 pm
I have a pretty sexy voice - at first it was flattering when people would compliment me on it. Genuinely flattering. Then it started to get repetitive, though I always smiled and thanked people because they were trying to get nice. These days it is just downright creepy and sexually harassing, especially when it happens in the middle of the workplace or during job interviews.
The fact that you don't mind when a woman slaps your ass probably has a huge amount to do with the extremely limited number of times women have slapped your ass.
This cracks me up! We have a guy nurse at work who has a sexy voice and even the other guys think so! It is hilarious when he has to call the doctors. Ooh, la la! "Yes, doctor, Mr. Cardiologist. My patient wanted me to call you and ask if their heart is good enough for sex". Ha!
One of our women patients actually did ask one of our guy nurses this question! (it's a cardiac floor)
04 Jul 2016, 10:37 pm
Don't women realise it's a compliment because the guy slapping her behind is implying she has a sexy body. In clubs when girls grope my butt I find it very flattering
I cannot stand people who have no respect for personal boundaries, and the idea that these disrespectful infractions which are boundary invasions should be taken as a personal compliment when done by men to women is just really bizarre.
In New Zealand law unwanted touching without permission can also be a form of assault.
05 Jul 2016, 2:28 am
Let's just say if I ever do find a Hunny, he better not do that to me in public no matter how long we've been going out.
You got that right! He could touch it or grab it, eventually, but not smack it! no way! I wouldn't do it to him though either.
05 Jul 2016, 2:48 am
05 Jul 2016, 3:23 am
In women's case, unwanted touching is often a prelude to rape. Men seem to have this problem with far less frequency.
That said, there's different ways you can deal with it. When a boy slapped my bottom in high school, I grabbed his wrist and stabbed his hand with a pencil. Maybe that was an overreaction, but the boys made sure to respect my space after that. 
05 Jul 2016, 3:53 pm
05 Jul 2016, 3:54 pm
That said, there's different ways you can deal with it. When a boy slapped my bottom in high school, I grabbed his wrist and stabbed his hand with a pencil. Maybe that was an overreaction, but the boys made sure to respect my space after that.
you are my hero!
05 Jul 2016, 4:04 pm
05 Jul 2016, 4:07 pm
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