I realized that I cannot be attracted to too ugly guys.

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09 Jul 2016, 10:43 pm

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Tbh are these guys just ugly because your not attracted to them?
Yes, exactly.


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09 Jul 2016, 11:02 pm

I doubt you can help who you're creeped out by - if you're honest - just the same as you can't really help who you're attracted to.
It's all feelings, only some people can manage their feelings better than others.


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09 Jul 2016, 11:52 pm

It creeps me out if someone is directly behind me.....I don't by default than assume the person is creepy though, it just feels weird to me to have a presence behind me, even if it's people I know.


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10 Jul 2016, 5:02 am

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What is an ugly guy even?

I don't know how this is even measured.
I don't know either. :|


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10 Jul 2016, 1:31 pm

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Alliekit wrote:

Why such hate? This is such a uneccsary comment. It's very rude to call someones feelings they can't control creepy. It's like calling autistic people creepy for being autistic.

I would and have felt very flattered when women have shown interest in me. People don't chose who they are attracted to. Just take a compliment, tell them sorry you are straight and ya know... don't be a dick about it.


k, but next time plz ignore my posts u annoy me


Hehehe good to know ;). Don't call people creepy for being the way they are and I won't annoy you. Simples



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11 Jul 2016, 12:44 am

ShesGone wrote:
I realized that I cannot be attracted to too ugly guys. Am I a bad person? :(

Nobody likes to admit this, but everyone is like that. People are shallow. If you feel bad about it then you can hide it under terms like 'chemistry' and 'spark'.



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11 Jul 2016, 12:46 am

ShesGone wrote:
Jacoby wrote:
What is an ugly guy even?

I don't know how this is even measured.
I don't know either. :|


well that doesn't help

i genuinely curious a to what and who is considered ugly



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11 Jul 2016, 5:42 am

^ If he has evil, aggressive, greedy, overly horny face impression, he's too ugly for me. And bad hygiene is the worst.


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11 Jul 2016, 5:58 am

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Good, then I am safe.
LOL



;__; You are shallow.



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11 Jul 2016, 6:00 am

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Good, then I am safe.


What do you mean Boo? I've seen your picture and I think you are quite the stud muffin. :wink:


Stud only for the Tom Selleck generation.



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11 Jul 2016, 6:04 am

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ShesGone wrote:
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Good, then I am safe.
LOL



;__; You are shallow.
Yeah, I should admit that as a shallow person would judge the book by its cover.


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13 Jul 2016, 8:26 pm

I dont know of anybody who would be attracted to somebody that they consider ugly. That's pretty normal to not be attracted to somebody you think is ugly. Everybody has their own standard of who they consider to be good looking. I like darker swarthy looking guys and don't really consider the blonde, blue eyed Aryan types to be the standard of good looks. Blonde guys with olive skin and dark eyes are ok, but I prefer dark hair and eyes and olive skin. There are lots of gals who would very much disagree with me about this and I've only dated a very few of the Nordic types and while they were good looking, their personality was more important to me than their looks and was why I dated them. I've never dated a guy on purpose that I considered ugly, although I went on a blind date with a couple of them.

It's perfectly fine and not at all shallow to want to only date someone you find attractive. What's shallow is refusing to be friends with someone who you don't think is attractive or to think that unattractive people are less important than more attractive people.


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14 Jul 2016, 12:27 am

No you are not a bad person... for having taste/preferences in romantic partners.

A person is beautiful based on both physical features and character/behaviour traits to me. It's purely subjective although physically speaking there's a general consensus of what's ugly and what's not (like, overly obese people are unhygene, too asymmetric face, etc..)



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14 Jul 2016, 4:01 am

OP, is your profile pic actually a picture of you? You must have loads of women chasing you.
Those poor women :lol:


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14 Jul 2016, 4:05 am

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OP, is your profile pic actually a picture of you? You must have loads of women chasing you.
Those poor women :lol:


^ No.. :lol: I wish. :mrgreen:


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17 Jul 2016, 11:18 am

There's absolutely no reason to feel guilty about not being attracted to someone. Physical appearance is just one of the elements we consider when sifting through potential matches and picking out a mate. Obviously it's not the only thing to take into account, but it's certainly not something that most people can/should disregard.

I see it like this

Attraction + Amity = Potential Partner
Attraction + No Amity = Potential Fling
No Attraction + Amity = Potential Friend
No Attraction + No Amity= Someone you don't go out of your way to hang around