Weird and confusing thing on schooltrip.

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The question comes to mind though, whether one
feels better or worse for this kind of thing. I know
that I always get enough of a charge, that even
if it goes nowhere, it is better than the monotony
of normalcy.

I know a lot of you would love to say 'i told you so'.
But when the situation is happening, you aren't thinking "i shouldn't do this", you're just thinking 'this is fun'.

And now, maybe it's time to think, "That was fun."

Perhaps she is this friendly with a lot of guys. But, solely basing your conclusion on this doesn´t seem like good reasoning. When she does like a guy, she will have to do this too. Otherwise, how should she act towards someone that she likes? Will she be cold and unaffectionate? I´m not saying that she likes you, but just saying that it doesn´t prove that she doesn´t like you. Although the handwriting thing when she was serious about +chloe not being true isn´t a good thing. I think the whole, "if she is still with her boyfriend" thing was a better indicator.

I don´t know, I´m just as lost as you are when it comes to these things. So, don´t mind the blind man telling the other blind man what its like to see. I don´t mean to get your hopes up again, just putting in my 2 cents.

About the hugs thing. I do like them. Maybe it does mean that you still like her, so what. And, maybe you won´t ever have her. Hugs are still nice. Better to be hugged than not touched at all I say. If you can handle your feelings.

Maybe she loves me, maybe she doesn't.
Either way, i'm not hoping for anything.
But the fact that even after the trip and whole fainting thing she still behaves this way just confuses me more.
I want to believe she doesn't feel anything for me.
But at the same time, i feel like i could be throwing away a lovely girl if i didn't persist for a bit more time.


There's this one little detail i remember again though which i'm going to add for the sake of accurateness.

familiarities go a long way, indeed. sometimes you wonder why nts are so hardwired about their routine in that respect.
two cases among my friends who both had/have as*hole boyfriends but had/have massive problems breaking up. the one who managed to break free called me often, just wanting to talk about his latest idiocies and how he treated her, and i was like "baby, you dont need that done to you! theres a thousand more deserving of someone like you" - and it all was no use until she really got knocked out by falling in love with a nice guy.
the other one still is with her jerk, complains about not being happy anymore but denies that she is unhappy with her boyfriend (nt logic at work).

in my extended family, a girl has a pure idiot boyfriend and is with him for several years. she got dumped by him in the meanest way possible and when he xame back, started the relationship again. after some really heavy incidents, she managed to break up with him, only to notice that now everything is different from yesterday (kinda why you change crap situations, i always thought) and to call him and ask him to forget yesterday.

She hugged me again twice today and not the usual friendhug.
God, i'm feeling so uncomfortable with it as i still have no idea what it means.
I still don't understand how she could 'use' me in this way.
After all, it's just a hug once in a while.

Hmm.

hypothetically(I say this because of what's going through my mind) she may not be using you, and genunially(SP?) likes you, but..............but at the same time she is playing it safe.

dunno. Right now I'm trying to help a fellow female friend out with her boyfriend......Full blooded NT's are weird. I'm half blooded.

I have a cousin who is very flirty and tactile with people. Even if she doesn't want a relationship with them. She seems to like attention and to like being liked. Even though she is gay she will flirt with a guy and lead him on...

Some people are just like that.

Although she could like you without wanting to split up with her boyfriend. It's always kind of hard to tell what people's motives are.