What do you do when you date a guy

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I say whoa man how did I get here?

hey thanks for that i try it the next time cause we decided to date each other but haven't done any thing really yet

"Doing it" is fun, but it's not the point of a relationship (I can hear the flames coming at me now). I mean, if all you want is sex, there are plenty of ways to get it, without a relationship. If you're looking for something more....well, no rules. You're on your own. If you both want to have sex on the first date, why not. But then you might find that you have nothing else in common. If that's so, you haven't wasted good sex (if you're careful) but you haven't had that much of a "relationship" either. And if all it is, is sex, that's not very satisifying.....fun maybe....but not satisfying. That takes several dates. And an understanding or each-other.
Luck to you.
btdt

well i'm not looking for sex i'm looking for things to do that does not include that

Well, then you're looking at something closer
to a friendship, with romantic overtones. Anything
that you'd do with your friends is cool. Uhm...anything
else too - I mean, the lack of sex decision is yours, how
much more than what you'd do with friends is also your
(and your date's) decision. I don't see what you're asking
actually.

Talk about it

Seems like you "took a walk on the wild side"

I'd love a female partner that has AP as we would both have an understanding of AP knowing this there would be less fear of being open with each other. Always being totally honest with a partner has to be good for a relationships in the long run. (But I know nothing has I've been single for 30 years and I'm 27 years old.)

I agree. if you're confused/unsure, you can say that you're confused or unsure.

Hey ok thanks for the input but if i were to start a conversation with my boyfriend talking about my feelings how would i start it

Yo! I feel like this:....

How would you start any conversation?
It's always tough, but wait for a serious
moment, and just direct things where
you want them.

Either that, or throw an emotional fit,
and when he asks what's wrong, list
all his faults - but I think that's the NAS
way of doing it.

Yo thanks but what if you repeat words when you talk and can't say words probably or more a lees talk that well

I've always had diarrhea of the mouth,
with those I'm comfortable with. Sorry.

what do you mean your sorry what for.

Gab. don't mind Cal. he's odd sometimes.

Here's my advice, because franky I don't even understand ye, and I' the res date doc around here.

what it sounds like to me is that you're wanting help in how to approach a relationship. in that case, you are gonna needa a whole heap of help.

Sorry because once I get to know someone,
I can't really STOP talking, and thus have
little advice, in that area. There is always
the fit though.