Sweetleaf wrote:
Alright so this is a bit to do with past stuff not my current relationship which is just fine, but a past relationship(I suppose you might call it). So over a year ago there was a guy I went out with a few times who essentially broke it off with me, we went out a few times and I did like him. But after one time we met up I didn't hear from him for a few days...and even made efforts to arrange to meet up again which he ignored all of.
Anyways the other day he messaged me on facebook, I didn't particularly want to respond as I've certainly moved on and am quite happy with my boyfriend. Well after some friendly chat he told me how girls on okcupid don't seem interested and he is not the type they like....well thing is when a girl(me) was interested in him he stopped talking to her until she moved on and found someone else. Admittedly I didn't really have a response to his sentiments, and didn't really want to say 'well I liked you' as I don't want to give any wrong ideas.
Does anyone have any sort of insight...do you think he's just trying to be social and reach out to people he's met in life that he hasn't talked to in a while. Or do you think he's having a go at me for getting a relationship? I am just not sure what to think.
Oh man ghosting is never fun and it always leaves things weird and unresolved. I had that happen to me with a dude I went on a couple of dates with 2 years ago. It was sh***y but honestly he kind of got his desserts cuz I saw him on OKC last year and he'd aged like 20 years within the one year between lol. He looked awful. The more petty side of me was gleeful. I'm an honest person who would never ghost on someone, so I assumed he had something horrible happen at first when he initially started ignoring my texts. It made my anxiety so bad.
Anyways it sounds like this dude just wants validation because no one else seems to want him. So he's being sh***y yet again, like he was when he ghosted. I can't stand users like that, they only want to talk when they need a shoulder to lean on or a quick ego boost. I'd ignore him personally. I'd actually probably block him to be honest. Like some others have said you could send him a message about what he did wrong, you're happy with your boyfriend who actually respects you, and you don't want to talk to him. Do what feels right for the situation.
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21 Aug 2016, 4:56 pm
