Do most women find this look boring?

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15 Oct 2016, 12:46 pm

Worrying about minutia like that is counter-productive. Click-bait articles on the web about specific thinks that "women like" are extremely subjective and unscientific; basically as reliable as Facebook personality tests.

Just think logically - plenty of guys with brown hair and brown eyes in the past have been able to find a mate.

Individual women will have specific preferences; only things you should worry about are staying in good shape, having your life well-managed, having actual goals and purposes in life beyond "finding a woman", and being at least sociable enough that you can have positive interactions with people.



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20 Oct 2016, 10:57 pm

Jamesy wrote:
Me having aspergers will probably make me undesirable to a big portion of women but on top of that I have also have dark brown hair and hazel eyes (my eyes are mix of green and brown but to most people they just look brown).

Do most women find dark hair and dark eyes boring on a guy? I read up this story on the Internet once about this young man with brown hair and brown eyes complaining that all different hair coloured women -blonde, black and red found his hair/eye colour combo boring.


Can I have your opinions on this? My mom told me 6 years ago "you don't need blonde and blue eyes just to attract girls" HA HA HA :lol:


Brown/brown is not boring.



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20 Oct 2016, 10:58 pm

Jamesy wrote:
Me having aspergers will probably make me undesirable to a big portion of women but on top of that I have also have dark brown hair and hazel eyes (my eyes are mix of green and brown but to most people they just look brown).

Do most women find dark hair and dark eyes boring on a guy? I read up this story on the Internet once about this young man with brown hair and brown eyes complaining that all different hair coloured women -blonde, black and red found his hair/eye colour combo boring.


Can I have your opinions on this? My mom told me 6 years ago "you don't need blonde and blue eyes just to attract girls" HA HA HA :lol:


Brown/brown is not boring.



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20 Oct 2016, 11:05 pm

Most women I know date boys with brown hair and eyes. That's probably a statistical probability thing rather than a specific taste, though, because I live in a very Irish area so you're either a brunet/te or ginger. But hair/eye color doesn't matter too much.



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20 Oct 2016, 11:56 pm

Women have all forms of looks they prefer, both color wise and body type wise. it depends on the woman. Personally I have a very strong preference for brown hair and brown eyes, and no facial hair.

Jamesy wrote:
Can I have your opinions on this? My mom told me 6 years ago "you don't need blonde and blue eyes just to attract girls" HA HA HA :lol:
Gad no, that's a look I'd never go for, as I find it completely non appealing. It just looks cold and boring to me.

As for that list... Hygiene is important, weight... I'm different there, I find chubby more appealing than thin. Style doesn't matter to me personally, if i like their cloths then that's a plus, but not a deal breaker. brown hair preferred, black and red is okay. I like shaggy hair much better than groomed and stylished hair.
Height, I'm not very tall, so I wouldn't want a giant.

You know what is very attractive, Jamesy? A sense of humor. this is important to most people, I think. their preferred humor differs, but to most it matters. it also matters that you come off as not taking yourself too seriously.


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26 Oct 2016, 11:19 am

Jamesy wrote:
Me having aspergers will probably make me undesirable to a big portion of women but on top of that I have also have dark brown hair and hazel eyes (my eyes are mix of green and brown but to most people they just look brown).

Do most women find dark hair and dark eyes boring on a guy? I read up this story on the Internet once about this young man with brown hair and brown eyes complaining that all different hair coloured women -blonde, black and red found his hair/eye colour combo boring.


Can I have your opinions on this? My mom told me 6 years ago "you don't need blonde and blue eyes just to attract girls" HA HA HA :lol:


Well I'm a male with blonde hair & blue eyes and I've had minimal success with women, so I don't think it's got anything to do with the colour of your hair or eyes. It's something else. Something that we autists don't understand.


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