Do I actually have a chance with my classmate in College?

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The_Face_of_Boo
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04 Feb 2017, 9:46 am

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In my case, as 5'3, there are a lot of women bigger than me. Would you feel as threatened if a smaller man asks you out?


If he had never spoken a word to me in public and all of a sudden wants my phone number out of the blue, yes, I would be weirded out.

Have you ever noticed that it's mostly the men who are the ones shooting up mosques and churches and schools? That's because some of you are unhinged. And we can't tell just by looking at you.

Look you've got women here telling you how we would prefer you to approach us and yet you don't want to hear it. Why bother asking the question then? Just do whatever you want and keep wondering why it doesn't work. :roll:


First, I don't like your tone in this post.
Second, I am so against asking out strangers. I was just telling you that it's not the same for men (if woman stranger asking out a man).



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04 Feb 2017, 2:38 pm

MjrMajorMajor wrote:
Sorry, but it isn't a business transaction. If you don't see results, you aren't "ripped off".

That said, you have nothing to lose and a possibility to gain.

Wrong.

Oh, I see! While it is not cool to treat muslims as if they were all potential mass-shooters, it is totally fine to do it with men in general. :lmao:
Thank God I don't have to deal with this BS anymore. :P



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04 Feb 2017, 2:58 pm

Peacesells wrote:
MjrMajorMajor wrote:
Sorry, but it isn't a business transaction. If you don't see results, you aren't "ripped off".

That said, you have nothing to lose and a possibility to gain.

Wrong.

Oh, I see! While it is not cool to treat muslims as if they were all potential mass-shooters, it is totally fine to do it with men in general. :lmao:
Thank God I don't have to deal with this BS anymore. :P

I was wondering if I was the only guy here that picked up on that.

To be fair, though, I can see it both ways. Violence is sanctioned in the Koran, men have an ugly history of mistreating women. Men, women, theists, and anti-theists will all draw what conclusions they will.



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04 Feb 2017, 3:01 pm

Peacesells wrote:
MjrMajorMajor wrote:
Sorry, but it isn't a business transaction. If you don't see results, you aren't "ripped off".

Thank God I don't have to deal with this BS anymore. :P



Congratulation Peacesells, I really wish you will never have to deal with this BS anymore. Good luck with your relationship.



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04 Feb 2017, 3:29 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Peacesells wrote:
MjrMajorMajor wrote:
Sorry, but it isn't a business transaction. If you don't see results, you aren't "ripped off".

Thank God I don't have to deal with this BS anymore. :P



Congratulation Peacesells, I really wish you will never have to deal with this BS anymore. Good luck with your relationship.

Thank you. Well as for now it is still only a mutual liking, but it is nice and she seems very different from other women.



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04 Feb 2017, 3:36 pm

Luhluhluh wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

In my case, as 5'3, there are a lot of women bigger than me. Would you feel as threatened if a smaller man asks you out?


If he had never spoken a word to me in public and all of a sudden wants my phone number out of the blue, yes, I would be weirded out.

Have you ever noticed that it's mostly the men who are the ones shooting up mosques and churches and schools? That's because some of you are unhinged. And we can't tell just by looking at you.

Look you've got women here telling you how we would prefer you to approach us and yet you don't want to hear it. Why bother asking the question then? Just do whatever you want and keep wondering why it doesn't work. :roll:


Don't forget the 'I don't like Mondays girl".

For me it's more like a privacy thing. If I have talked and got to know you first than I'm not bothered but if you randomly approached me an asked for my number I wouldn't want to give it to you. This would be the same for anyone who approached me man or woman.



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09 Feb 2017, 1:31 am

If you're not attractive, or above average, then it is probably not going to go well if you approach an attractive woman you have never talked to.

If you are hoping your charming personality will win over someone who is more attractive than you, then you need to show them your personality first. She will probably be more flattered if you show interest in her rather than just her appearance.

Social media is always nice for women because they can see if you make sketchy posts, or have extreme views on different topics. Or just have things in common. It can also let you know if she is single, or dating, or interested in someone else. It shows a lot more about a person and it can feel safer than just a phone number... A lot of people communicate through apps, not texting.