how many is too many?

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1 ! !! !! Ya piece o' trash!! !

Nah, a few. I mean, many will brag or lie about how many partners they've had but generally most people I've spoken to or grew up with, I've seen them in.. say, just under or over a handful of actual relationships over the years. So I'd consider 5-7 an average for general city folk our age, OP.

Also would like to add in response to op there is a difference between a person who is responsible with previous partners (protection and regular checks) and someone who is not responsible.

I would certainly not date someone like this one:



Also, creep level 99.

I wouldn't judge it on the amount of partners but if it's a lot of partners in a small amount of time than I would get the idea that the person might have to become a better partner themselves but that is probably not always the case

That's a tough question to answer but to me less than 3 was ideal and less than 8 was mandatory no matter what when I was dating.

I don't care how many sexual partners a woman previously had.

I've dated virgins and I've dated extremely "experienced" people.

The virgin turned out to have very unusual sexual preferences, later took up with a drug addict, and committed suicide.

Well then sheesh get me some princess-grade mushrooms & perhaps I can tell you.

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There is no number that makes a man or woman 'trashy'. A man or woman is no different in my eyes if they've slept with 1 person or 100

I'm not gonna refuse someone just because they're fuked 20 guys. As long as it ain't 22 while we're dating then I don't see a problem. Although I do admit, it will make me feel a little uncomfortable if you go into details about your "wild sex adventures". Likely I do not want to hear them because I will get jealous because growing up, I was never good with women and I do get a little jealous of people who got to experience these things so easily.

Don't really care and don't think it makes a difference. My girlfriend is the only girl I've had sex with but I'm more "slu*ty" in terms of how I act, think, dress, and just more adventurous than a number of other women who are more experienced lol. I had sex with my girlfriend the first time we hung out or really talked to each other outside of work lmao. Idk. Not a big deal.

For me, anything higher than zero and she gradually starts falling off in my interest toward her. Not because I think she's "trash", just because I think she's at a different stage of her sexual/romantic development than I am. She'd have to convince me that she's still in the initial curiosity stage, that she really hasn't figured out what boys are "about" yet.

Don't get me wrong, it's possible for a girl who has had zero boyfriends to already have a strong sense of what guys are about, to have the intent of already having a serious relationship, and lacking the playfulness that I'm after. Contrarily, it's certainly possible for a girl who has had several boyfriends to still be "adolescent-minded" and full of wonder about sexuality. But to the extent that experience tends to correlate with "grown-upness" (whether because experience makes girls feel more like women, or because girls who already feel like women tend to behave in ways that get them experience), I don't feel there's any specific number of previous boyfriends before which the number doesn't count, and after which it starts to count.

I preferred zero cuz I was a virgin until I got with my current girlfriend who was also a virgin. But I wasn't specially seeking out virgins or anything like that. I was interested in most anyone who seemed like they might give me a chance.