"You're such a sweet guy..."

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The next time I get told I'm "a great guy" (of course, that's assuming I ever bother expressing myself in that way ever again), I'm going to start snapping necks, starting with the person that says it to me. That should change people's perceptions of me quicksmart. Nobody would ever tell me I'm nice then...

well if that's what turns you on, then go for it.
if anyone tells me im a great guy, then they know they are going to get sex off me.
that also works.

Sex is overrated.

Usually when I get told I'm a great guy, I'm sure it's inevitably followed by the silent suffix "but if you ever try to touch me, I'll tear your balls off and make you eat them."

So the likelihood of getting sex off the person saying it is minimal.

well i just think you are being a drama queen now.

most of time this is true



are you sure of that? I doubt that .

well, very often they do end up with the 'more difficult' guys. they get pregnant and then... they spoil their life, but also the lives of their children who suffer in such marriage.

while it is not serious, they like to play with the bad guys to satisfy their instincts to be next to someone strong who can physically protect them. but it doesn't work that day in this world anymore. the strong is the one who is able to earn money and so take good care of the family. we don't hunt to get the food anymore. but the instincts are still there. they know who is the strong one nowadays, and if they don't fall into forced marriage (through being pregnant), they, when the time comes, try to find somebody who can give them and their children good life. and then the sweet ones come into the picture as well.

^^ i am 25 yrs already and i noticed nothing changed with the girls of my age.

i am 27 and only now i am starting noticing a change. of course, only few of them are free.

Then there's the cowbird kind of stuff, where they want you to marry them and help care for the children that they had by another man. They may not feel obligated to be faithful to you, but you had better very well be faithful to them or they divorce you and take your money and home. Where's the other man? Oh, he became an abuser. He's Satan. He wasn't Satan before you got pregnant by him? And if you want to stand up for yourself and live like a human being, you're an even worse Satan, and I THOUGHT YOU WERE DIFFERENT! Yes, I am different. That's why she didn't marry me in the first place, believed that I would put up with her garbage after I married her, believes that I can do entirely without sex from my wife, or children, and why she believes that I should put up with it when she goes out and has sex with other "cool" guys while she is married to me and denies me sex. Hey, she probably even denied me dating and sex when I was a teenager, by whispering to other girls.

Without that comma you'd be a sick bastard.

The person that said that girls aren't "evil" (yes, you know who you are). Yes, at teenage years, they're what one would call "evil". So evil, that I play Star Wars in my mind, and they're the "Dark Side". Whoever these "genius" scientists are that said that your kids turning into evil bratty (etc etc) kids isn't caused my parents, I can say this... "U R WRONG". Friends don't help. My sister used to be nicest kid I'd ever seen. Then parents came down on her, friends came down on her, pressuring her, and what do you know? She's an evil snobby little brat, who thinks money falls from the sky.

So more on topic. Yes, teenage girls like the big strong jerky gorillas, and would be laughed at for being around the nice guys (I should know, I've seen this, all the girls at recess around one guy fighting over who should date him, and what do you know? The guy is a jerk).

I'd say, move on, you'd probably be best without her. Anybody who plays with your mind, is a moron, and nobody do the whole "LOL NO UR WRONG, LOL UR WRONG, U R WRONG", because I have expert training in the ways of the Light Side (aka fighting teenage girls). Specifically at teenage years, because that usually goes like this:
if (girl == DitchYou() + GoGetJerkToDate()) {girl == evil, MoveOn()}

There is no need to bring that up.

sorry people i didnt realise i was in the kiddies forum

Like male infidelity, this has an evolutionary basis. My ex-gf at one point admitted she would date a guy who treated her like crap (humiliated her, cheated on her, the works) if he was the dark romantic hero type, and I lost a lot of respect for her then and there. Why would I respect someone with the emotional maturity of a she-wolf? I wouldn't expect a woman to respect a man witht the emotional maturity of a monkey. Women that go for jerks deserve everything they get.
On the original post, either she was playing games, or just practicing, or has changed her mind.

i agree 100%. very well said. my mother married "a man with the emotional maturity of a monkey", she could have much better life if she just didn't let him make her unexpectedly pregnant finally they got divorced couple of years ago and she has a normal life now. her previous life wasn't easy, but it was very well her decision. the sad part of the story is that we, her children, could have easier life too, if she didn't make the mistake. i don't understand the women who date the jerks. i saw what happens with them from the first row. after all, my father has a pitiful life now, but he had a good run, while he was young. better than me now.