Stalk wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
PE= premature ejaculation ; usually PE and ED manifest together.
Consume less caffeine, eat more vegetables and fruits, have more nuts, eat a lot of watermelon; have more sleep and try not to sit for too long straight. Don't even consume any soy sauce or seeds, soy has been scientifically proven to be the worst food for men's sexuality.
And oh, unlike the modern popular belief, male masturbation is NOT healthy for males, especially for the brain (and with porn is even worse, but even without it isn't). It may be healthy for females, but masturbation is a very bad habit for males. I am not saying it causes blindness or like the old myths; but there had been tons of testimonies and surveys linking masturbation to ED; a human is supposed to have sex with another person, not with their hands - anyone who tells you otherwise is being delusional. So you need to stop the masturbation if you do it a lot, and the porn if you watch them.
But what helps most, is a partner who's patient and enjoys foreplay - there are women out there who expect men to get fully aroused in the first 5 seconds, like in some porn movie, and would b***h about if they don't; those don't understand that their behavior is a total turn off, and themselves are part of the problem.
Thanks for that, yeah I've often heard women saying to me that their exes were always instantly ready. But it's nice to hear someone else also echoing what I have to experience from uninformed/unwilling to understand women. I guess everybody needs to learn.
I have always suspsected that I may be less sexual than most men; or having less libido.
Fo example, it was always puzzling to me why men ogle on stranger women; for me no matter how sexy the woman is then it's meh for me; I mean I may appreciate her beauty but it's a visual stimuli is not enough to make me drool.
A girl back at school thought I may be gay because I have showed this ogling behavior.
Also It was always disturbingly puzzling to me how rapists are capable to get hard and penetrate the victim; I never understood how do they even get aroused in first place without mutual foreplaying or flirting.
It seems though, that many normal men can get aroused instantly, me and you are simply not ones of them; and it may be biological.
I tested my testesterone and It was like 450 ng/dl which is among normal range in health references but some references say it's low for my age, so I dunno.
03 Jul 2017, 6:43 am
