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29 May 2007, 5:57 pm

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Calendale:

I thought you were married. Doesn't that automatically exclude having sex with someone else ever again, regardless of whether or not you could love them?

And are you bi? What is loving a male, vs loving a female? What is your definition of "love"?

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Married yes. Haven't seen or spoken with my
wife in over 2 years. No idea if she's alive or dead.
Nor, when we were married, did that preclude me
from having sex. Marriage is a piece of paper granted
by the state; it's purpose in our case was for tax benefits
while she was in school. So, what kept me from sex with others
was the suspicion that such would hurt her, if she wasn't involved.

No, I'm not bi (though I've gone further than many who are). Loving
is a closeness, and a friendship. Sex can add to this experience, and
I've never had sex with a male that I loved - nor would I want to. Thus,
it leads to an inevitable barrier, which doesn't exist in such loving relationships
with women (well sometimes - but that's another story: one of missed opportunities
which perhaps ruined my marriage).



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29 May 2007, 5:59 pm

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Call her anyway. Ask her out, on a proper date. If she wants to go, she'll say so.


'proper' dates are a pile of excrement.
Bond yourselves together through sex,
and mutual enjoyment of other activities,
which can include things otherwise seeming
like a 'date', but lacking all of the stupid
pressure.



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29 May 2007, 6:01 pm

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Guys:

Are you all congratulating Richard Benson for having sex?

This is like a peek into the men's locker room. We gals, from what I recall, didn't talk about it too much. Usually wasn't much to talk about. <rim shot>



Hell yes. It's what he wanted, and he enjoyed it.
Plus, it might well lead to something more.



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29 May 2007, 6:13 pm

you should have showed her your rock collection.



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29 May 2007, 6:20 pm

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welp im back and after about 15 times of doing the hookie pokie with her, im exausted. 8)
i dont know if shes my girlfriend or what or if she just wanted to do it!

:P

i hope i dont turn into some wierd obsessing freak over her i'm sure i wont.


well i told you before, you never know what's round the corner.
Im happy for you.
How about some photos of yr new girlfriend ?
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29 May 2007, 6:21 pm

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you should have showed her your rock collection.


im guessing he did :lol:



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29 May 2007, 6:46 pm

well ive spent the last couple of hours with her, trying to act cool lets see what did we do? she had me take her to chilies. i mean already? i guess i atleast owe her that much for um doing stuff with me but still. now ive been out of the dating scene since i was 13 or something but this just doesnt seem right. but i knew it was going to happen. all women want, unless they love you is money or food. AND were not dating, i dont know what we are doing but she doesnt like that i dont drive, obviously i didnt know how to tell her i cant. really, she just looked at me like i would really tell her i was a nascar driver and that i was joking. this is terrible!

oh yeah i asked if i could take her picture and put them on the internet and she said no.

can this get any worse? are we speed dating because its 2007?

i want to die. on a positive sidenote i havent drank in 3 days!

no way am i telling her i have aspergers, that will ruin my game son. i think she already knows something is wrong with me but cant figure it out yet.


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29 May 2007, 7:00 pm

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no way am i telling her i have aspergers, that will ruin my game son. i think she already knows something is wrong with me but cant figure it out yet.


you know what you are doing, this is the way to play it. let her keep guessing.



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29 May 2007, 7:00 pm

Just play it cool. Don't try to be suave, you'll just come off goofy.


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29 May 2007, 7:10 pm

i think i'll sabatoge our next get together, im just not into todays scene. of course i told her a little lies like i owned the house i was living in and all that girl crap in my house wasnt mine but i was holding it for my sister who is in iraq. fighting for our freedom. i know im terrible! haha i deserve shoulder pain im so evil, *sigh*


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29 May 2007, 7:22 pm

i need a way out of this disasters relationship. please help me come up with ideas of sabatoge! obviouslt not answering the phone isnt going to work, since she already knows where i live.


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29 May 2007, 7:22 pm

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oh yeah i asked if i could take her picture and put them on the internet and she said no.


you know this is a good thing really.
I mean most women wont say yes to this, unless they are getting paid money.



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29 May 2007, 7:26 pm

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i need a way out of this disasters relationship. please help me come up with ideas of sabatoge! obviouslt not answering the phone isnt going to work, since she already knows where i live.


haha, youve had enough already.
that's it, you are doomed for life, there's no escape.



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29 May 2007, 7:29 pm

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i need a way out of this disasters relationship. please help me come up with ideas of sabatoge! obviouslt not answering the phone isnt going to work, since she already knows where i live.


Take her picture and put it on the internet.
Tell her all the things that you lied about.
Demand that she be your slave.

Hell, it's EASY to scare them away.



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29 May 2007, 7:32 pm

:!: Wait :!:

What happened while I was eating?

We had wandering in the dark, strangers in the night, sex in the bed, and several "way to go, buddy" pats on the back. 8)

Then I come back to read what's happened, and there was lunch, and lying, and now trying to weasel out of talking to this person. :?

What happened? What did I miss here?
:jester:



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29 May 2007, 7:32 pm

cal, obviously i want to scare her but not to get the cops involved!


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