I wanted a call girl for my autistic son

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Yes, but we're they happily married or did they rush into marriage just so they could have sex then stay together because society told them they had to?

Society tells them they have to now (otherwise, why marry at all?), but they don't.

You can parse anything to apply to an individual example here and there, but I am referring to gross statistics, across the board.

People stayed married longer, when they weren't preoccupied with "the grass on the other side of the fence," and were more aware that they were in a lifelong partnership that was about something more than just physical gratification. Wondering what's under the next person's clothes is a distraction from what's really important in life - and if the best sex you've ever had is the sex with your spouse (because it's the ONLY sex you've ever had), why waste time wondering?

It's funny how you all got caught up on the call girl thing

I was really struck by her description of him

Goodness knows how she's a professional writer this is some high school level description of conversation... she's a really bad writer, but she has awkwardly captured the kind of feeling I see expressed here by myself and others.

My mom worked at a group home for developmentally delayed and disabled people and the guardian for one of the men living there arranged for this very thing.

it's like i said,i'm better off single & stimming

Alright, now I'm convinced you misread it.

okay, my closing thought on this. its a very uncomfortable idea, I wouldn't want that personally, but the more endearing part of the story is the Mom giving that much of a damn about her son and his struggles at all. Dad at least helped me on the academic level of things, mom just wants me to know why I don't date. there are many reasons.

The call girl is going to dump him. I can feel how needlessly rushed the relationship is.

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My aunt's are always asking me if I've met someone yet. Every time I see them. They don't understand why I'm not in a relationship.

I think my parents get that i'm an aspire and they don't pressure me. I do wonder if they worry about me.

My Mom doesn't pressure me or my sister directly she's got this weird subliminal way of doing it a bringing it up. The reality is, my sister, my Mom, the things they said and the media I grew up with in my prepubescent years, and my pubescent years coupled with bullying, I kinda have locked myself into this self-hate complex whenever I feel longing or attraction to some one. then in college people coupled this with politics now, so now its a matter of morality so it is double re-enforced. the only way to not feel like this is the be with foreigners not on the social metric. (that does come with its own pariah status since I mostly end up with non-Christianized Asian girls, but because they are Asian, that mean 'yellow fever.' the other weird part is the Asian girls who eventually start turning our meetings into dates start with paid tutoring. I know that is accepted in Asia, but it just feels awkward that all the lessons I am preparing were their indirect ways to get me to go on dates).

but that leaves me in the weird place, either stay here and try to date people from here with the metric staked against me along with my own taught self-loathing, or try to survive in a foreign place where the metric is not so bad, but i can't bring whomever I meet back because all the negative views come back with it)

"Yellow fever" I don't want to jump to conclusions because I'm unfamiliar, but that sounds slightly racist in some way.

Who cares what your family think. Date who you want. It's what's on the inside that counts. Not skin colour or different culture.

that's kinda because it is, and it makes an otherwise harmless situation feel stigmatized, sinister and s**t. like everything else. I guess I like foreigners more and being foreign just because... under THAT metric people are more, unassuming of you. then they take you for who you are rather than what category you can be shoe-horned into.

I beg to differ. Losing your virginity in a casual encounter, or even to an escort, may be "bad", but it's far more damaging to never have had the ability to pick up girls at a young age. When you're young---that's 16 to 20---dating, relationships, and sex tend to be fun and free of adult responsibilities. It's an important stage to go through. Once you get it out of your system, you naturally start to gravitate to more "adult" relationships.

Conversely, when you're forced to go from zero experience straight to "adult" relationships, effectively leapfrogging over the "fun" stage, all because you lacked the ability to get dates at a young age, it can really damage you. Far worse than an escort ever will. In my case, I developed an intense fear of all relationships and became a staunch Red Pill believer. Other guys might lash out violently instead.