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Come on, Peanut Butter.....you just might be your own worse enemy.

You're creating an ideology of yourself which might not be true.

Okay then how do I become more social? What few friendships I have developed naturally, as in I avoided them like I do everyone else at first until I overheard them talking about something I like with their other friends and I joined in. I have literally no idea how to go out and just "make friends."

The '?'

Even as a conservative leaning person, I never quite got the fascination of beta males using alpha male slurs to put down their fellow men (cuck, snowflake etc.) but hey if it makes the OP feel better, all the power to them I guess.

^^^ everything one needs to know about OP is in those two words. personally i find the use of "feminist" as an insult highly offensive.
surprised the mods have allowed it to stand

Gotta love the people who ask for help and turn down every answer they get. He clearly has a sense of entitlement as chichikov said. If you aren't willing to put any effort into yourself first, how can you expect someone to want to be with you? I think the OP should picture what it would be like to date someone like himself that has no interest in improving their social skills. Just because you have a rough life does not mean that you deserve anything in life. I say let the OP continue to play the victim, and when he's finally ready to improve himself and accept people's answers, then he will be worth helping.

I said feminist cuck because anyone who hears "I want girlfriend" and "I don't know how" and thinks "wow he thinks he is entitled" is obviously someone who has bought into third wave feminism and it throwing away common sense in favor of being offended on a woman's behalf. Thus, feminist cuck. If he, or any of you, have a problem with that, then you should start thinking and stop... whatever it is you're doing.

I'm a male, and I consider myself a "feminist." But not a "third-wave feminist." I am no cuckold!

I just think people, sometimes, have to go out into the world more, and not rely on "social research," essays, ideologies, etc. when forming an impression of anything.

You're putting yourself through the classic "double-bind." Get out of the cycle, the whirlpool which leads nowhere.

Go out there and meet real people. People aren't a composite based upon the results of "social research." Just like no family actually has 2.4 cars in their garage.

In order to get better at being "social," you have to practice being "social" with actual people. You'll goof up at first---but you'll learn from it.