Aspie women why do you defend all women?

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25 Oct 2017, 5:46 pm

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I find women who say they want drama free funny, like good luck, life isn’t drama free not even for the super weslthy, life is mostly drama and struggle.


I am guessing at this but "drama free" could mean somebody who is not manipulative. (Emotional abusers tend to manipulate people around them to artificially create extra drama)



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25 Oct 2017, 6:03 pm

This is just precious.



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25 Oct 2017, 6:10 pm

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There are probably more pandas than aspie women in the world.


If dating pandas is an option I’m ready to dive back in the dating pool.



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25 Oct 2017, 6:13 pm

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There are probably more pandas than aspie women in the world.


If dating pandas is an option I’m ready to dive back in the dating pool.



Yep.

I have been stockpiling bamboo for this very occurrence.



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25 Oct 2017, 6:19 pm

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Further more in my mind it’s only be generalizing if I said ALL WOMEN


If I say, "Women are superficial", it means the same as "All women are superficial".


No it doesn’t. All women mean every single woman, some women , means a minority or few women, women is less then all women more then 1 woman.



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25 Oct 2017, 6:21 pm

sly279 wrote:
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Further more in my mind it’s only be generalizing if I said ALL WOMEN


If I say, "Women are superficial", it means the same as "All women are superficial".


No it doesn’t. All women mean every single woman, some women , means a minority or few women, women is less then all women more then 1 woman.

If someone said "Apples are red", wouldn't that seem like an incorrect statement, because there are also green and yellow apples?



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25 Oct 2017, 6:22 pm

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I find women who say they want drama free funny, like good luck, life isn’t drama free not even for the super weslthy, life is mostly drama and struggle.


I am guessing at this but "drama free" could mean somebody who is not manipulative. (Emotional abusers tend to manipulate people around them to artificially create extra drama)

I dont know it sounds like they don’t ever want to fight or hear complaining or problems when I hear it. My life is problems I’m aspie on disability. Every month I have to fight the government about my income as they assume I make far more then I do despite I made the same last 2 years. But every month they assume I make 2,000 :roll: so that’s drama and there always seems to be drama at work. I don’t onow how to avoid drama.

If they mean that why not just be like others and say no manipulation or game players.



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25 Oct 2017, 6:30 pm

sly279 wrote:
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Further more in my mind it’s only be generalizing if I said ALL WOMEN


If I say, "Women are superficial", it means the same as "All women are superficial".


No it doesn’t. All women mean every single woman, some women , means a minority or few women, women is less then all women more then 1 woman.


:lol:

Maybe if you're not capable of understanding how language works you should just stop making posts about women, if you can't do so without making sexist generalizations "by accident" over and over and over again.



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25 Oct 2017, 6:33 pm

sly279 wrote:
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Further more in my mind it’s only be generalizing if I said ALL WOMEN


If I say, "Women are superficial", it means the same as "All women are superficial".


No it doesn’t. All women mean every single woman, some women , means a minority or few women, women is less then all women more then 1 woman.

Maybe not in your mind but others may not interpret it the same way.
Same as people say, "Autistic people are ret*d."
People with milder autism are still going to get upset over that, even if they are not actually ret*d, because it's a generalisation.


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25 Oct 2017, 6:34 pm

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Raleigh wrote:
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Further more in my mind it’s only be generalizing if I said ALL WOMEN


If I say, "Women are superficial", it means the same as "All women are superficial".


No it doesn’t. All women mean every single woman, some women , means a minority or few women, women is less then all women more then 1 woman.

If someone said "Apples are red", wouldn't that seem like an incorrect statement, because there are also green and yellow apples?

Ah seee but you mess upped. Most people do say apples are red. Doesn’t mean all apples are red, or they’d said that. Apples come in red, hello, orange and green.
Cars are blue. People say that too. In fact it’s quite common for people to say similar things about everything without people accusing them of applying it to all of that thing.
Ps4s are black.but some are also gold or white.

If they said all apples are red I’d call them out.
If someone said cars are white would you feel the need to say they are generalizing and demand they say most before that statement in every future conversation. Or would yiu say yeah cars are white but they also come in other colors.
See apples are red. It’s tru yiu see red apples everywhere so apples are red, similarly apples are green. Women are superficial , women aren’t superficial. Entirely difffrom all women are superficial and no women are superficial. Both are definitive states,ents applying to every single last apple or woman. Without that defining word apples just means something between one apple and all apples. It’s undefined so it could be 5 apples but it could be 1 billion apples.
Same as you wouldn’t say look at this 55 apples you’d say look at those apples. People don’t use defining words in every senstance of everyday conversations.
I’m only human, so to expect me to use defining words in every sentence relating to every object in every post in every thread and then to bash me for not is crazy. Whys it my fault people assume I’m talking about all women then take it personally?

I’m fine with women saying I’m not that way or not all women are that way, it’s the no women are that way your just insane and lying that pisses me off. It’s devaluation of my experiences. I don’t see men do the same to women who come and complain about how men have treated them. Generally besides boo, we comfort them, acknowledge men are like that but tell them not all men are and offer them hugs and a listening ear.



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25 Oct 2017, 6:37 pm

Raleigh wrote:
sly279 wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
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Further more in my mind it’s only be generalizing if I said ALL WOMEN


If I say, "Women are superficial", it means the same as "All women are superficial".


No it doesn’t. All women mean every single woman, some women , means a minority or few women, women is less then all women more then 1 woman.

Maybe not in your mind.
Same as people say, "Autistic people are ret*d."
People with milder autism are still going to get upset over that, even if they are not actually ret*d, because it's a generalisation.


Cause of the ret*d. If they said autisric people are mentally challenged I doubt it’d get as much a backfire.retared is like the n world, it’s a insulting derogatory term.

So a more similar situation would be saying women are b***hes or women are c***s
It’s not ok to call any woman the b or c world or call autiscifcs the r world or African Americans the n word regardless of if you talking about just one.



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25 Oct 2017, 6:49 pm

This page includes examples of generalizations that don't use the word "all": http://examples.yourdictionary.com/exam ... ation.html



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25 Oct 2017, 6:51 pm

TheAP wrote:
This page includes examples of generalizations that don't use the word "all": http://examples.yourdictionary.com/exam ... ation.html


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25 Oct 2017, 6:55 pm

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This page includes examples of generalizations that don't use the word "all": http://examples.yourdictionary.com/exam ... ation.html

A lot of them did in particular the examples evolving men and women, it either used all women/men _______. or women/men all want _______.

I don’t think we should bash fellow aspies for not using a defining world before a noun.
Leave that to nts