Is it time for me to give up?

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Well you're certainly right about that; no smoke without a fire. It's still not wise to hang too tightly to stereotypes or assume that they're flawless, though.

The ones I know certainly don't, but there are lot of different people so its not impossible that the most you have met are like that.

I think that certain kind of anime attracts certain kind of men, not that certain kind of anime makes men in to certain kind of people (there might be exceptions though.)

There are jocks who dislike anime but love the Dragon Ball franchise, mostly the Z anime. In fact, most of the time, they just say they like "Dragon Ball Z" but dislike the first half of the series because it lacks the bro factor of the Z anime. They think every other series is either "gay" or "weird Japanese cartoons".

What are your thoughts about the idea of taking a break from hunting for a girlfriend?

Closet, I diagree with you this time on animes, I rethought about that.

I watch some animes (ie. Attack on Titan, Yamato...etc - not muh into silly long-fights animes such as dragonballz).

"Hot" girls in animes are typically very hard to get; almost unattainable by the average or geeky anime guy. On the other hand those "hot" anime girls often only drool for the super hot alpha-so male while being indifferent or even mean to the average one.
Ugly/unattractive/weak/geeky guys in animes are often single and crave women attention that they never get.

It is exaggerated but it isn't far from reality.

What's by far more unrealistic is those american sci fi movies where the geeky non-rich guys get supermodel gfs so easy peasy, such as the Transformers and Spiderman movies.

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Hmm...

You're probably right here. I was too quick to talk out of my ass, my knowledge of anime is not sufficient.
But still though, even if anime has no influence, it still seems like anime often attracts an audience of men with doormat syndrome.

Doormat guys in animes are like doormat in real life: not attractive to women.

In the childish and silly animes such as Bleach (forced to watch few with a friend), "hot" girls often kick and fist the doormat guys but their eyes become hearts when they see the hot tall hero guy.

In many JRPGs (which are so based on animes), all female teamates fall in love with the one same guy (the strongest and coolest), who is often the chatacter you play.

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I always took it as giving up but my therapist told me it isn't the same.

I certainly don't want someone like Closet Genious telling me how to live my life, especially since he jumped to conclusions about me. I've actually had a girlfriend before and it didn't take any redpill BS. She actually approached me instead of the other way around.

How did I tell you how to live your life?
You start a thread called: "Is It Time For Me To Give Up?"
And I gave you my opinion.

Regarding that girlfriend of yours, I have 2 questions:

1: Were you fat at the time?
2: Why did it end?

Don’t “give up,” but do take a look inside with tools like meditation, journaling, and spending quality time with yourself, however you define it. Answer the question “who am I?” I am on this journey as well. Keep us posted. I appreciate your honesty.

A part of me does desire to figure out my life. I have been slacking on meditation so thank you for the reminder. For a long time, the Bible Belt brainwashed me into thinking God had a plan for me and made me complacent instead of encouraging me to be myself. I will never forgive the people and culture who forced that outlook onto me.

women are VERY shallow.

hot women want hot men

average women want hot men

bad looking women want average men


nobody wants the bad looking males, its a problem. bad looking males are left alone .

Have you considered the possibility that they are actually Satan-worshippers?

“Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.
On that day many will say to me, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?’
And then will I declare to them, ‘I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.’

- Matthew 7:21-23

What are you talking about? Hot women date bad looking males all the time.

In fact, more often than not, hot women date ugly males.

It's not the appearance that matters - it's the personality.

Most hot women will turn down a nice guy - even if he's hot.

Most hot women will date a bad looking man, if he's abusive.

- If you want to master your surroundings, then you have to be aware of them and understand them.

I don't believe in Satan and what most Christians call "Satanism" is just their ignorance about Wicca as well as other forms of neo paganism. They don't realize that the Catholic church demonized the pagan belief systems and culture to scare people. Christianity itself also took a lot from paganism despite claiming to hate it. A lot of Bible Belters actually think atheism is the same as "Satanism" but what can you expect from close minded people who only associate with those who think like them and reject those who have different ideas? So, no, I don't think the people who shoved their views down my throat were "Satan-worshippers".

Hot is subjective. I find most gothic girls to be hot but someone like my older brother who considers himself a "true American" (In his view, a white Christian) would call them ugly. Ghetto girls get considered hot by the "gangstas" but I feel like vomiting when I see them.

Exactly - Catholicism is the one institution that actually introduced Paganism into Christianity.

- Christianity began as an extension of the revelations of The Torah and was not paganistic at all.

Paganism teaches that God(s) is an entity not meant to be understood - and that you have to please God(s) and be a morally-good person to enter heaven.

When the Roman Empire adopted Christianity - they intertwined their Paganistic-beliefs with what was revealed by Yeshua.

Where people once convened in a circle to break bread and form a connection with God - suddenly people were packed into buildings to listen to a "morally-pure" Priest deliver sermons to them about hellfire.

- The difference between Paganism (and the Catholicism that resulted from it) and Christianity, is that Paganism teaches you to please God and be a good person to get into Heaven.

Christianity gives you the revelation that you cannot please God - and that getting into Heaven has nothing to do with morality.

You get into heaven by having a connection with God - that's all.

And when you form a connection with God, you take on His characteristics (Perfect love, long-suffering and wisdom)

This goes back to the beggining of Genesis - when the Serpent said, "If you eat from the Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil - you will be like God"

Religion (and Paganism) mimics God.

And God said, "If you eat from My Tree - you will live forever"

Meaning that forming a connection with God gives you permanence and that you will take on His characteristics.

Religion does the opposite and mimics the process - leading to death.

That is why Atheism (the belief-system that God does not exist) is the same as Satanism - because it is part of Satan's intent to keep you closed off from God (keeping a connection from being formed and leading to death)

The irony is that Athiesm is just like the closed-mindedness you referenced in your post - and it is also closed-heartedness.

It's also ironic that they are not ignorant about Wicca/Neo-Wicca - they are aware of the fact that it is also a diversionary-tactic that is also rooted in death. (The Tree of Knowledge of Good and Evil - Religion)

Now the reason your peers where you live are Satan-Worshippers - is because if they were Christians, they would not make fun of you, threaten you, insult you and demean you.

The Matthew 7:21-23 Verse that I quoted is about God telling fake-Christians that He hates their fakeness and that they never had anything to do with Him.

So God is aware of your plight, and coincidently, He is working in your life right now.