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CockneyRebel
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09 Nov 2017, 8:47 am

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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This thread busts 2 myths:

-Any woman can get a date on a dating site.
-Working out gets you laid.


The first one is not a myth. Fat women can still get dates from dating sites.


That's very well said.


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09 Nov 2017, 8:53 am

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Seems like you glossed over the part where you can make subtle hints which aren't offensive.

You can ask for someone who isn't stupid by saying you'd ideally want someone to discuss [insert intellectual topic here] with. Same as you can avoid an unhealthy date by asking for someone who likes to do the same training regimes as you or a gym buddy. Tell them what you do want, but not in such a harsh way.



They still read any guy that wants a gym female or health conscious female partner as "NOT ATTRACTED TO FAT WOMEN" and you rustle the hatred in them.

Maybe its just British females.



Yes it's just us Brit females, here to make you miserable. :D

Just put, you love the gym and you're into nutrition and you want someone to share those interests, if you get hate that's their problem, there seems to be a lot of it about.

You are allowed to only find slimmer women attractive, but not everyone feels the same way, so it's no wonder your responses include women who are not slim. It's been said, women are not mind-readers.


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09 Nov 2017, 9:01 am

Plus, it's just occured to me, health and fitness could be an interest. It might reduce the chance of you being read as someone who "doesn't want fat women" if you describe it as wanting to find someone to share similar hobbies rather than wanting a woman who goes to the gym.


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09 Nov 2017, 9:52 am

Is it so hard to just ignore the women who email you that don't meet your criteria?



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09 Nov 2017, 11:21 am

Alright, fat women are delusional, they bought this body positivity BS and "he should lov me for who I am", of course they will thinkj they are the hottest thing you can have.
Attractive women are not on dating sites to find a boyfriend. They can do it in real life. Being on dating sites and getting tons of messages is the prefect ego boost. You don't need to lift a finger and you get all those compliments.

Unfortunately I don't think you can do much. People don't read profiles or they don't comprehend them.



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09 Nov 2017, 12:41 pm

Sometimes World has officially been escorted to banned camp.

I'm sure he'll pop-up again later with yet another alt, but, for now, L&D can rest easier.

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