Your negative characteristics or "flaws"

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thank you some nice person could come into my tin can and make it ship shape up the yingyang, and within hours it would look like a storm swept through it.

Due to my disability I am unable to work full time. There’s no well paid part time jobs.

Women do not dig emotional men. Nor men who like to be touchy and cuddle allot. They call us wimps and clingy.

No but watching cartoons and anime at big red flags to women, cartoons apparently men’s a man is a that word thst means sexual attracted to kids, anime means the man is sexist towards women and a pervert.

According to women men who play video games are childish man babies.

Sly, I'm going to add "I overgeneralize when it comes to women" to your list of flaws.

I've been a gamer since I was 9, which was before the first AD&D manuals were published. I'm a video game hound and have been since video games became a thing 'way back when. I dragged MisterChess into the first Warcraft (Orcs vs. Humans), then into UO, EQ, and WoW, because he was either going to play video games with me or spend a lot of time alone.

Oh, and I have flaws. Temper is one of them. I'm one of the most selfish people I know, too - I don't really mean to be, but I can literally forget that the people around me (even the ones I love and would never willingly hurt) depend on me for things.

^^^ya gotta find one who LIKES video games, they do exist, but rare.

I trust people too easily and quickly.

I am unable to maintain friendships, despite my deep desire to.

My emotions overpower my thoughts.

I am too effected by loss.

That’s becoming less and less common as the gamer generation get older. We will be the 80 year old gamers one day.

Anything pre generation x usually have rigid ideas about cartoons and gaming, but they will be gone in 30 years.

It’s what most women think, it’s a common meme. Also conservatives think it to. I’ve been told any one who plays video games over 18 is a man babie.
See you play video games. Meaning your a gamer. Most people and women aren’t gamers. And so view video games as just for kids. It’s why people freak out about games like gta existing cause “kids shouldn’t play thst type of games” no s**t cause it’s made for adults lol.

Yes but it’s till not at a point where most the population plays games or thinks it’s ok.
One of my platoon mates wife made him stop playing games. I’ve overheard a lot of gamers wife’s or gfs tell them to stop playing and grow up. I was always told I’d have to too if I got a gf. A lot of people play mobile games but view that differently then console players or pc gamers.

Example how many women would not be embarrassed if they’d husband or bf carried around a vita or switch and played it in public? Even a big YouTube gamer admitted that’d be social suicide and isn’t accepted by the general population. I’m sure it might get to a point one day who knows. Most my ex friends stopped playing games when they got gfs and wife’s they quote “grew up”

It’s always bothered me that gamers are losers but people who spend most their time watching a sport on tv and drinking beer is normal and cool. Gamers just have a different entertainment interest is all.

They rare and they tend to hide it too.id be better off just trying to find one who is ok with it. Likewise with guns.

Competition for decent women who are genuinely into video gaming is way too stiff for anyone not already good with women to bother. Trying to stand out among a legion of gamer guys is a pointless endeavor. Just ditch the gaming.

I have extremely low patience for false politeness.

IMHO "false politeness" beats the burlap outta no politeness at all.

I think because the majority of my friends are geeky I just don’t see a lot of non gamers. I forget that it isn’t the norm.

The whole point of the switch is to take it with you I played gameboy advance sp in university classes (How did I pass?)

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I don’t know anyone locally who plays games. One guy at work use to but stopped when he started to move up in the work place and got a GF.
Mean there are lots of guys thst game, we have a gaming store. And back in 2013 there were 80 guys in line to buy new PS4. But we are the minority in comparison to non gamers. I wish I could meet geeky women.

Yup. Which I fortunately makes it a poor choice for adult gamers wanting to blend in. Guess it’d still be good for travel and playing In your hotel room though. Then again Nintendo is geared towards kids. They’ve always been since the GameCube.
I use t take my vita places. I’m sure my family at gatherings thought I’m a man child though. I can’t not do anything though drives my adhd crazy. I have a game boy advanced somewhere.

I have a plethora of negative traits that have put off women from me until this day and probably far beyond:

-Obesity, I have been about 40 pounds overweight since 18 and it has made a huge impact on my confidence and I just don't carry my weight very well. It is something I'm really working towards right now and have lost a noticeable amount of fat, 10 pounds approx since I started in the beginning of this year.

-I haven't graduated from any schools since elementary school due to my complete lack of motivation for the working life and I've just wanted to spend my days playing video games in my house, only leaving outside to get food. This might change as I am about halfway through my current school and I should be able to push through it now that I have some more motivation.

-I also don't have a job as nobody really hires here unless you've graduated from somewhere after elementary, so this will probably have to wait until I have graduated from my current school at least. This of course means I am quite poor and cannot afford the luxuries many girls demand from their husbands.

-As I stated before, I really love playing video games and would probably want to do nothing else but sleep and play games if I could.. Now I'm sure there are girls out there who don't mind gaming when it's done in moderation but I doubt there's any who would want someone for whom it is their life pretty much.

-My attitude towards women has shaped to bit of a misogynist over the years of being treated like crap by them and by reading the MGTOW and Red Pill-posts online and sucking all that hate inside me. Due to my AS I have also always been very rude towards even my best friends and have lost almost all of them through the years because of some of my actions or words that have been too much to take. This is something I have improved on a bit while maturing but I can still be very hurtful from time to time, especially when drunk.

-Speaking of being drunk, alcohol has also been a huge problem for me and has contributed loads on gaining weight and wasting money and losing friends. I have decided to quit drinking almost completely and will only drink on rare occasions now.

These are just some of the reasons I can think at the top of my head why I am not found appealing by women but I'm sure there are more which I myself don't even recognize but others do. All I can do really is do my best to work on improving my life and who knows, maybe some day a girl might even be interested.