Will my romantic life improve?

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I wouldn't be surprised....but I think it's a relatively suburban place. He talks about riding his bike sometimes.

I actually live 35 miles away from central london - 'hampshire'

It could.. But you'd probably need to work really hard for it. I'm in a very similar situation, being 27 with little to no experience with women yet, difference being I'm 6 feet but also overweight. I have a girl interested on going on a date with my this week but she is even fatter than me and I don't really find her that attractive. Would it be immoral just to use her for experience while working on myself to get more attractive to girls I find more attractive?

Well 'use' may be wrong word as she might still enjoy it and me maybe a bit too, especially if her personality is really good (seems good from messaging so far). I just really need some experience with women and so I really have to take what I can get for now. I know Sly would not miss this opportunity at the very least...

There's no way a girl could be in my position experience-wise anyway so that example is pretty invalid. This is all a bit early anyway as I haven't met her yet and she might not even be that into me (very likely). But if she's going to be a way for me to finally lose my virginity, I ain't going to let that opportunity pass.

you can be open to her about it. saying that you aren't interest in her but you are interested in keeping something casual. otherwise, it's using and it's immoral.

I had a similar thing happen to me last summer when an even fatter girl was interested in me and I went with it just to see if I could do it.. I couldn't. And I remained a virgin. But it's come to the point where I'm just about willing to do it with any girl who is interested in me (within reason). I'm sure most guys in my position would do the same.

they would and that's why almost everybody seems to be really unhappy with life. people don't seem to care to be honest to each other and keep using others to achieve things.

if we consider moral as some standard of behavior, maybe we can't even call it immoral as it's really common. but still from my point of view, isn't something good.

if you are 100% open with the girl that you only want a one night stand, at least she will know what to expect. but don't pretend to offer more than you intend to just to guarantee a sex experience.

also, sex is overrated. especially when people don't share a good deal of intimacy.

In order to improve it:

1- Get a job

2- Take a loan or save, and fix your broken nose.