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30 Mar 2018, 2:38 pm

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She's lived in China for most of her life so I don't think she's familiar with cult classics. The good thing is that means it's her first time for most of my movies. We ended up going with Back to the Future. She seemed to enjoy it but she had a bit of trouble following it. Her English isn't great.

A couple of days later we watched Back to the Future 2. She tried to tell me that's not what 2015 was like :lol:

I realise Back to the Future is pretty mainstream but considering it's banned in China it's not mainstream for her. Later I'm going to show her My Fair Lady because I feel like Henry Higgins trying to teach her English. We're having a real Pygmalion romance.

She really seems to enjoy watching movies with so I'm sure we'll get to watch a few of the ones on your list. Later I want to take her to the old fashioned cinema in my town. The one where they play the Wurlitzer before the movie starts.
This is sounding good, good luck.



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14 Apr 2018, 10:03 am

I was wrong. She doesn't like watching movies with me. She likes being with me but she doesn't like watching my movies. She's been getting increasingly distracted while we're watching movies. She'll often start looking at her phone during the most important parts of the movie.

Recently, while we were watching a movie I started playing a video game on one of my other TV sets and she became far more interested in watching me playing the game than in the movie. Maybe that could be our new activity.

Tonight I showed her one of my favourite movies. 2001: A Space Odyssey. I don't think she liked it much at all. Maybe she didn't understand it. Her English isn't very good. I was thinking of showing her Metropolis but perhaps she won't like that either.

I'm beginning to think that maybe she just doesn't like old science fiction movies. She said she likes romance movies but the only romance movie I can think of is Passengers. Could someone recommend some really good romance movies?


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14 Apr 2018, 10:50 am

If her English isn't good, do you watch the movies with subtitles? That makes it a lot easier to understand especially if there are any characters who have a strange accent or mumble or something like that.

I don't watch a lot of romance movies either but my favorite romance movie would be 'Just like Heaven'. Basically it's a mixture of romance, comedy and fantasy. Some young woman has a car accident while on her way to a blind date and falls into a coma. The guy she would have met moves into her apartment some months later and her spirit awakens there but at first doesn't know that she's in a coma and that all but this one guy can't see her and she's furious because he refuses to get out of her apartment. Since he is in her apartment and the only one she can talk to, they get to know each other and they find out that she's in a coma. Doctors think she won't wake up anymore and decide to switch the machines off that keep her body alive. By then the guy likes her and decides to kidnap her body to prevent her death (she worked in a hospital, therefore knows how to keep her body alive).



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14 Apr 2018, 1:08 pm

Have you all watched the Princess Bride? That's a fun movie. Titanic is a good one too - not too sappy, great film to watch even if you hate romantic movies (like me). :)


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14 Apr 2018, 1:25 pm

Love Actually
Mamma Mia!
Four Weddings and a Funeral
Bridget Jones's Diary



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16 Apr 2018, 12:55 am

I showed her Ladyhawke. She seemed to like it but she didn't agree that Ladyhawke counts as a romantic movie.

I tried to argue that it's a love story and when that failed I tried to argue that it's a romance in the old fashioned usage of the word.


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19 Apr 2018, 12:21 pm

Austin Powers: International Man of Mystery


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19 May 2018, 11:23 am

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Austin Powers: International Man of Mystery

Good idea. She seems to like comedies.

She didn't seem to enjoy A Clockwork Orange but she seemed to enjoy Coco.


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19 May 2018, 3:05 pm

If it was me, I would probably go with either Monty Python and the Holy Grail or Scott Pilgrim VS The World



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19 May 2018, 5:01 pm

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If it was me, I would probably go with either Monty Python and the Holy Grail or Scott Pilgrim VS The World


If she's not a native English speaker I would absolutely not show her Monty Python. Not only is the humor off beat but she is not likely to understand the digs at English society and culture. MP is an acquired taste for sure.

Why don't you ask her what SHE wants to watch and let her pick something.


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20 May 2018, 5:20 am

Have you tried Mimi wo Sumaseba (known in the US as Whisper of the Heart)?

Unless (like some Chinese) she has an aversion to Japan/Japanese.


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20 May 2018, 2:48 pm

Almost any 90's Adam Sandler film has comedy, romance and a fairly simple storyline.

Also second AA, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Blade Runner

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25 May 2018, 3:15 pm

RetroGamer87 wrote:
I was wrong. She doesn't like watching movies with me. She likes being with me but she doesn't like watching my movies. She's been getting increasingly distracted while we're watching movies. She'll often start looking at her phone during the most important parts of the movie.

Recently, while we were watching a movie I started playing a video game on one of my other TV sets and she became far more interested in watching me playing the game than in the movie. Maybe that could be our new activity.

Tonight I showed her one of my favourite movies. 2001: A Space Odyssey. I don't think she liked it much at all. Maybe she didn't understand it. Her English isn't very good. I was thinking of showing her Metropolis but perhaps she won't like that either.

I'm beginning to think that maybe she just doesn't like old science fiction movies. She said she likes romance movies but the only romance movie I can think of is Passengers. Could someone recommend some really good romance movies?


:lol: This whole thread has been quite amusing.. I just skimmed it now & it's chock full of recommendations of movies that would be GREAT to watch with your guy friends, not so much "date movies," that females enjoy.

Also, I was a bit surprised to not see THE most often recommended "date movie," ever make anyone's recommendation list so far.. it was such a common date movie that it even had a bit of a pop-culture phrase coined after it as people would say that nothing compares to "Notebook sex," as the movie would, apparently, get women in the emotional state of mind that made them want to have fantastic sex with their partners.

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25 May 2018, 6:16 pm

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:lol: This whole thread has been quite amusing.. I just skimmed it now & it's chock full of recommendations of movies that would be GREAT to watch with your guy friends, not so much "date movies," that females enjoy.

Even the recommendations from women were movies that would be great to watch with your guy friends :lol:


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26 May 2018, 10:05 am

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goldfish21 wrote:
:lol: This whole thread has been quite amusing.. I just skimmed it now & it's chock full of recommendations of movies that would be GREAT to watch with your guy friends, not so much "date movies," that females enjoy.

Even the recommendations from women were movies that would be great to watch with your guy friends :lol:

Well were're not going to recommend films we don't like. I haven't seen the notebook but it's written by the same guy as the horse whisperer one and that was boring as s**t.

So what you are looking for is films with lots of scenes with the heroin looking miserable because she's not been made to feel loved, followed by some crying to show off that she has the full set of proper female emotions, followed by some pointless self sacrifice and a deluge of more emotions rammed down everyone's throats to make them feel bad, followed by some more tears. Will you be watching these films with her :)