AngelRho wrote:
white_as_snow wrote:
and all of them where 1-2-3 on the look scale.
i think its time for people to stop with the "there is someone for everyone".
ugly women dont want ugly guys. i am proof of it.
Who’s...wait...
Ok, I’m the resident numbers game guy. Out of 1000+ you should have AT LEAST 10.
If I understand correctly, you’re approaching ugly women because you’re an ugly guy. The problem is you’re lowering your standards to attract women you assume are desperate, and I would guess it’s all out of your own desperation that you do this. “Ugly women,” if they exist, are only ugly. They aren’t desperate.
You might also be trapped in a self-fulfilling prophecy. You consider yourself ugly and assume pretty girls won’t have you. You suspect ugly girls have high standards that don’t include ugly guys. So you don’t really make the effort to get to know girls and spin acquaintances into dates. And then your failure to get dates feeds right back into your confirmation bias.
I’m curious about these 1000+ women you’ve met and gotten to know. Over what time frame? How did you meet? How long have you been in contact with them? See, if you take a single year and mass-swipe girls in dating websites or whatever you do, or you approach every women on the street and ask for a date, no, that’s not going to work. If you reach every last woman on the planet you might eventually get somewhere, but that’s not really the way to go. You need to form actual relationships and move those towards something romantic. That takes time. I would set a goal to form 100 relationships on a basic level within a year. That means knowing the names of 100 girls you see somewhat regularly, girls you have conversations with, and actually REMEMBER important information about them. If you can manage that, you’re practically guaranteed at least one date by the end of the year.
i had zero bro.
i dont think ugly women are even ugly, but if we go after what thet society says then yes they where so called unattractive. and i dont think "ugly" women are desperate, they are human beings just like everyone else.
self-fulfilling prophecy ? nope, my flaws are real, my rejections are real. i am not crazy.
I am for sure ugly, one of the most ugly guys on the planet, and i am not saying that to get attention, its just a fact.
I made great effort.
Since i was 14 until now (i am 26) have i tried to talk with women. For friendship and for dating, some i approached irl some i approached online.
How long i had contact with them? Well irl just a few seconds lmao. I am really ugly so nobody wants to talk. On internet its more eazy, with some women i had contacts for days, but not more.
I will never meet every women on this planet, that is unrealistic and even if i could i actually think none of them would want me as a friend, bf and for sure not a ons...
RetroGamer87 wrote:
white_as_snow wrote:
ugly women dont want ugly guys. i am proof of it.
Are you even that ugly?
oh yes.
314pe wrote:
white_as_snow wrote:
ugly women dont want ugly guys. i am proof of it.
I am also VERY ugly, but I had decent success at online dating when I was specifically looking for the type of a person who might be interested in me. And it's not the same as looking for the female version of you.
i have done this too. if you had more sucess than me than i guess you have better social skills than me and perhaps you are not even ugly.
Fnord wrote:
You think that YOU are ugly?
I am uglier than this guy.
Yet, in my single years, I was able to date women. While it did help to have some spending cash, what I had going for me was a (faked) cheerful disposition, a (faked) attentive attitude, and a (real) talent with musical instruments.
Some say that all it takes to be popular is the ability to fake sincerity.
So, I guess that ugly guys who can't get dates need only decide which is more important: Deception or loneliness.
f**k yes i am ugly. i am the most ugly guy on this forum by a landmile. not a single person in this world can find me attractive.
what do you mean with deception?
CannibalCorpse wrote:
I was thinking of this, how he did it, yes, 1000+ women ... it's a lot
Tinder!! !
I'm pretty sure he meant swiping 1000 times, otherwise I don't believe this. Sorry.
i made contact with 1000+ women, its true and all of them declined. my social life is such a joke that you cant even belive it.