24 Jul 2018, 3:22 pm
BTDT wrote:
Men typically become more desirable as dating partners as they get older. This isn't true for most women.
https://www.zoosk.com/date-mix/dating-a ... ger-women/
Here is some data to back that up.
https://www.zoosk.com/date-mix/dating-a ... ger-women/
Here is some data to back that up.
I don't think that's true at all.
There's a lot of desire for "Milfs", "Cougars", older women, etc. IMO, it's all about mindset and putting yourself out there.
24 Jul 2018, 4:17 pm
24 Jul 2018, 5:10 pm
isloth wrote:
Thanks for your post MR20, it was very good and informative! 
I'm glad you were able to reevaluate and change yourself to a more healthy outlook, that is something that takes a lot of effort and determination. I think it's important to realize that although people who have ideas like that are toxic, they are also often suffering, and so it is wrong to think they are irredeemable and can't change. It's very easy to take one step away from depression and self-loathing and have it turn into hate of others or blaming a specific group. In any case, I'm glad you managed to reconsider, I hope that it helps you to accept yourself and be more positive, I think you will find that others are more likely to accept you then as well.
I'm glad you were able to reevaluate and change yourself to a more healthy outlook, that is something that takes a lot of effort and determination. I think it's important to realize that although people who have ideas like that are toxic, they are also often suffering, and so it is wrong to think they are irredeemable and can't change. It's very easy to take one step away from depression and self-loathing and have it turn into hate of others or blaming a specific group. In any case, I'm glad you managed to reconsider, I hope that it helps you to accept yourself and be more positive, I think you will find that others are more likely to accept you then as well.
This is why I have sympathy for some incels. I used to think like them and had similar views. (not the psychotic ones of course) Maybe it's due to certain parts of societal norms or something that happened to them during adolescence.
The main issue (aside from the entitlement) is that they place so MUCH value on sex and relationships, to the point that it's completely warped their view of the world in general.
24 Jul 2018, 5:13 pm
24 Jul 2018, 6:01 pm
kraftiekortie wrote:
I have sympathy for some who are "involuntarily celibate." I know the feeling pretty well LOL
I don't have it, though, for those who make a political agenda out of it. Who start talking crap about women, and about themselves. And come up with all these hairbrained theories about why they can't "get" a woman.l
I don't have it, though, for those who make a political agenda out of it. Who start talking crap about women, and about themselves. And come up with all these hairbrained theories about why they can't "get" a woman.l
Yeah I'm not sure women would want to date someone who hates them as a sex. And there is a such thing as "femcels". Look it up, Female incels! They seem to have the same issues as males. One of the first things that popped in my mind is why won't they just date each other.
24 Jul 2018, 6:43 pm
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25 Jul 2018, 11:11 am
Now....if your screen name was M80, I might start to wonder 
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23 Jul 2019, 8:28 am
Success stories are not very popular around this part of the forum and the whole forum is about tree quarters dead these days, but good for you dude, keep up the good work 
