Is a man with long hair unattractive ?

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It probably depends on if it suits the person's face or not, though personally I really like long hair on guys. Actually, I think it would be at the top of my list for attractive physical attributes in men (not that I have an actual list), but my mom thinks I'm weird for that, so it just depends on the person and their opinions I suppose. Ultimately, I think you should do whatever you want with your appearance.

I was rejected, many times, in favor of men with long hair and guitars. I don't feel bitter about it. It's just the way it happened.

Do you write songs, Sabbra?

To me, yes. long hair looks kind of dirty to me.

Well whatever I'm dirty blonde anyway. I would rather appear dirty to you as opposed to being dishonest in how I present myself.

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Depends on the guy. It's the same with facial hair. Some guys can pull it off. Others can't.

If you are a poor guy, long hair makes you look unrepentant. So you are doubly damned.

But if you are rich and famous:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q61vIK9RTPU

Richard

Definitely women find long haired men unattractive.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bSNpy1SAnwE

Richard

I find our societal preoccupations with physical appearance hideous.

There is no way you can honestly evaluate my looks without meeting me anyway & I'm not concerned with the statistics on this either. I don't exist as eye candy for anyone & I have no plans to. None of that stops me from staying fit though. I don't judge others by appearance unless they try to start a fight with me. I don't believe in creating social discord around petty differences like this.

If guys with long hair look off-putting to you, it's probably because we're fed up with this judgemental nonsense.

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

IMHO the most plug-ugly types look markedly better with the distraction of waves of shoulder-length [or longer] hair. I look better with long hair than short hair so I've had it long for most of my life 'cept for in the army, and then I would slick my longer-than-regulation hair under a bunch of goop during duty hours.

Here's another reason I keep my hair in its' natural state; I don't legitimately find anybody unattractive. I may see some women as more attractive to me but I think it's unhealthy to preoccupy yourselves with unwritten standards you had no hand in defining. Here I am being talked down to & I'll bet five bucks none of you have even invented your own kind of haircut!

Not spending exorbitant sums on my looks frees my mind up for much more important tasks than simply not looking ugly to you. Everything outside my hair is a pointless distraction where I'm concerned, unless I'm actually talking to someone.

Ultimately I grow my hair out because I'm fed up with a culture in which people are discouraged from making individual decisions. I don't associate with superficial trends & I can't understand the need to tell me I don't look any good. All of you look just fine by me, 100% guaranteed.

"Why don't you ask the kids at Tinamen Square? Was fashion the reason why they were there?"

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"Standing on a well-chilled cinder, we see the fading of the suns, and try to recall the vanished brilliance of the origin of the worlds."
-Georges Lemaitre
"I fly through hyperspace, in my green computer interface"
-Gem Tos

I stopped cutting my hair in earnest when my Flowbee vacuum-powered haircutter stopped working for the umpteenth time and I couldn't fix it anymore.

no need to cut it, it stops growing by itself, in my case when it reached the middle of my back down around the bottom ribs.