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02 Dec 2018, 10:35 am

Ichinin wrote:
For me it feels pointless to actually spend time crafting a message to someone, mentioning words from her profile to make sure she knows you read her text, and then it gets lost in a sea of dickpicks, impersonal copy paste messages and generic crap like "Hey babe, how are you doing?".

Also don't forget the double standard. An alpha male can post a penis pic or write "hey, how you doing?", and still get many replies. A beta male can write hundreds of thoughtful, sincere messages, and get no results.



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03 Dec 2018, 12:14 am

Aspie1 wrote:
Ichinin wrote:
For me it feels pointless to actually spend time crafting a message to someone, mentioning words from her profile to make sure she knows you read her text, and then it gets lost in a sea of dickpicks, impersonal copy paste messages and generic crap like "Hey babe, how are you doing?".

Also don't forget the double standard. An alpha male can post a penis pic or write "hey, how you doing?", and still get many replies. A beta male can write hundreds of thoughtful, sincere messages, and get no results.



What an alpha male? What a beta male?



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03 Dec 2018, 12:51 am

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What an alpha male? What a beta male?

alpha male -- top 20% of men every woman feels sexual attraction to.

beta male -- all other men; includes but isn't limited to NiceGuys(TM).



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03 Dec 2018, 1:46 am

Aspie1 wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
What an alpha male? What a beta male?

alpha male -- top 20% of men every woman feels sexual attraction to.

beta male -- all other men; includes but isn't limited to NiceGuys(TM).


Are you saying women want bad guys? This guy I been talking to since last week, he told me some sexual things in the beginning, but he stopped, he told me, he don’t want to pressure me into anything I’m not comfortable with. If he only wanted sex then why he keep talking to me.



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03 Dec 2018, 2:21 am

Aspie1 wrote:
Kitty4670 wrote:
What an alpha male? What a beta male?

alpha male -- top 20% of men every woman feels sexual attraction to.

beta male -- all other men; includes but isn't limited to NiceGuys(TM).



Source: the 'once' most popular dating site, the old okc.

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I am sure things are even worse for men on Tinder, and the brand new okc.