first impressions

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This is my opinion since I first saw an aspie girl and her problems towards guys in a disco. I saw how she acted and how she helpless tryed to get the attention of a guy that she liked. It was obviousely for me what she was trying but to the NTs she seemed only being strange. We are emotionally like a different species. In the end NTs are in a way that is optimal for humans who lived always in ape style hierarchies. People like me are different in a way that was optimal for humans who lived in small nomadizing groups of hunters. NTs are emotionally calculating and manipulating. I dislike this. Because of my lack of empathy I'm immune to this.

There is an other strange point. Once I learned eye contact I found that NT guys like and accept me in a strange way and many try to become a friend of me. They greet me, want to shake hands with me, want to trink with me or even want selfies with me without knowing me. Why? Guys aren't that way to other strangers.

If she is friendly and has a good mood. I like girls who are a bit playful and funny as most guys do. And that she signals that she likes me.


Most people get this by the way that someone speaks and the words that he or she uses. The character of most people expresses in the facial expressions and also the way that they move. I always look people in their eyes for getting the way that they are.

I quietly observe what she says to others. If it makes me think hard about her topic, that is usually a sign of intelligence to me. Physical science concepts that get brought up by her get special consideration, as most people do not talk about those topics unless they either work in that field or is very interested in it. There are also certain topics that also detract from the estimated intelligence of the woman that I am considering. I will let others see if they can guess what they are. If she seems smart enough to hold my interest , I will introduce myself to her. If not, I walk away unnoticed.

Unfortunately, the excessive usage of smart phones has reduced the ability to make determinations, as people tend to talk less to each other face to face. They tend to live their lives attached to a screen. Some have become so dependent to their phones that they expect it to think for them. Ask them a hard question that they could answer if they thought about it for a bit and they tend to grab for their phone to look it up instead. I do not even consider those as candidates.

being playful and teasing might be something i am missing.

can you give examples of when a girl was playful or teased you and you liked it? (what was she literally doing at that moment?)