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16 May 2019, 11:17 am

Things went back to the one-word replies.., like two years ago, so it was probably like what cannibal said.

It was just a false alarm, go back home folks!



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16 May 2019, 10:52 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Things went back to the one-word replies.., like two years ago, so it was probably like what cannibal said.

It was just a false alarm, go back home folks!
I'm sorry Boo


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20 May 2019, 12:25 am

CannibalCorpse wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
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Go slow, Boo. Unless she also regards you as a crush, you likely feel more attracted to her than she does to you ... I mean your feelings about her are more intense, since you already view her as a crush.

But it does sound like this could be a good thing. Try to ignore the jaded advice such as "she reviewed her backup man options." Just be open towards it without entirely capitulating right away.



Yeah....I woke up the next morning and I was thinking like "This is too good to be true boy, be realistic", she looks like a model , she is likable by everyone and her ex was very handsome - at her same level looks-wise. She's also the over friendly type with everyone.

So....yup, let's be real, it can't be.


On the other hand, the chat yesterday lasted from 10:01 PM till 2:30 AM non stop, which.....is usually something women DON'T do with mere friendzoned dudes, and she said stuff like:

"You're strong, I admire this" during the conversation.


But again, these are probably wishful ideas.

Women do this when they need someone to talk to, someone who is willing to be there for 3 hours to take their mind off of another guy.

I did this too

As long as you don't know her intentions, don't get your hopes up!



Ok but such women need to stop doing this tho, you too... don’t do this anymore, it is wrong and manipulative.
You are fully aware that a guy willing to listen you for 3 hours doesn’t see you just as a friend. And typically those women pretend not to be aware of this (Yet I am 100% sure they do) and be like “boohoo I thought we are just friends”.

So yeah, for all women who do this: stop doing this. Seriously.