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10 Jun 2019, 2:28 pm

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No decent woman would be impressed by such behavior.

Clientele in such bars are not usually the bastions of civility.


Trying to impress drunk women is, perhaps, not the greatest idea.



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10 Jun 2019, 2:37 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
No decent woman would be impressed by such behavior.

Clientele in such bars are not usually the bastions of civility.

That's what I was thinking - maybe he likes going to sleazy places because they will be frequented by the sort of people who will confirm his warped views. Add alcohol to the equation...


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10 Jun 2019, 2:39 pm

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People with Asperger's are just not made for the "bar scene."

That's totally right. People with Asperger's should prevent it.

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This behavior seems incredibly creepy and inappropriate. Speaking as a woman, I wouldn’t be in any way impressed by such behavior.

It wouldn't impress me too. I did this just for testing the reactions of the guys long ago and nobody was hurt. I wanted to know how they would react. The reaction of the women was unexpected to me. :mrgreen:


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10 Jun 2019, 2:44 pm

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I doubt exhibiting anti-social behaviour in front of girls half your age will make things easier.

It may cause you trouble but not even few girls will approach you as soon as you dare to do. I don't like that women are this way but you can test this easily. Move to the center of a full dance floor by pushing all the guys who are in your way reckless aside without even caring about them. :twisted: I did once just for trying. A big guy in the center did rise his arm against me but I just blocked it away and ignored him. Two young women not even half as old as me began to rub on me with their back immediately and were trying to seduce me at the same time. But I don't really want to be liked for acting like an idiot. :roll:

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Deliberately shoving someone and throwing them on the floor is considered assault (in Germany) and if you keep at it someone will call the police. Repeated offences will get you in real trouble.

He wanted the girl not the police. But it's not the normal way that I'm. I prefere to be nice to other people. :wink:

I don't need to do anything of this sort - I have no interest whatsoever in the type of women you describe. A complete stranger - a drunk girl young enough to be my daughter even - rubbing her backside against me causes nothing but revulsion and disgust (and yes, I'm fully aware some people act this way)

If you're into that kind of thing, do whatever makes you happy I guess but telling us that this is how women are in general is just BS. Some of us appreciate intelligence, manners and class in the opposite sex and pick female company accordingly.


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10 Jun 2019, 2:53 pm

quite an extreme wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
People with Asperger's are just not made for the "bar scene."

That's totally right. People with Asperger's should prevent it.

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This behavior seems incredibly creepy and inappropriate. Speaking as a woman, I wouldn’t be in any way impressed by such behavior.

It wouldn't impress me too. I did this just for testing the reactions of the guys long ago and nobody was hurt. I wanted to know how they would react. The reaction of the women was unexpected to me. :mrgreen:


Most women wouldn’t react that way, truthfully.



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10 Jun 2019, 4:27 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
No decent woman would be impressed by such behavior.
Clientele in such bars are not usually the bastions of civility.

Trying to impress drunk women is, perhaps, not the greatest idea.

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Most women wouldn’t react that way, truthfully.

I don't believe that any of them were drunken. But we aspies are unaware of the hierarchy thinking of NT women. What the heck is an 'alpha male' and who even cares? (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vd2NTQPl7D8)


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10 Jun 2019, 4:50 pm

quite an extreme wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
kraftiekortie wrote:
No decent woman would be impressed by such behavior.
Clientele in such bars are not usually the bastions of civility.

Trying to impress drunk women is, perhaps, not the greatest idea.

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Most women wouldn’t react that way, truthfully.

I don't believe that any of them were drunken. But we aspies are unaware of the hierarchy thinking of NT women. What the heck is an 'alpha male' and who even cares? (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vd2NTQPl7D8)


Apparently, some are unaware that women are diverse and that one sleazy example says nothing about the majority of our sex. :roll:



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10 Jun 2019, 5:01 pm

A true "Alpha male" wouldn't indulge in that crap in the bar.



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10 Jun 2019, 6:38 pm

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Apparently, some are unaware that women are diverse and that one sleazy example says nothing about the majority of our sex. :roll:

Women are diverse of course. But the way of approaching men that they like by rubbing the back on them is fairly common in the clubs. There is nothing wrong with that. They are adults they can do this to everybody they like.


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10 Jun 2019, 6:43 pm

quite an extreme wrote:
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Apparently, some are unaware that women are diverse and that one sleazy example says nothing about the majority of our sex. :roll:

Women are diverse of course. But the way of approaching men that they like by rubbing the back on them is fairly common in the clubs. There is nothing wrong with that. They are adults they can do this to everybody they like.


How often have you experienced this personally?

Adults aren’t supposed to go around rubbing themselves on other people they don’t know.

If this stuff happens at clubs, alcohol is most likely the culprit.

Typically, if a woman sees a guy acting aggressive, she’s going to take that as a huge red flag.



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10 Jun 2019, 7:06 pm

Important life hack:

Adults, don’t go around rubbing yourself on people you don’t know!



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10 Jun 2019, 7:29 pm

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How often have you experienced this personally?
Adults aren’t supposed to go around rubbing themselves on other people they don’t know.

How often? Countless. It happens quite often that women do this towards me. I think it's a common approach that quite many NT women do if they do like a guy. Why not? Are they supposed to wait until he approaches another women?


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10 Jun 2019, 7:33 pm

quite an extreme wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
How often have you experienced this personally?
Adults aren’t supposed to go around rubbing themselves on other people they don’t know.

How often? Countless. It happens quite often that women do this towards me. I think it's a common approach that quite many NT women do if they like a guy. Why not?


I’ve never known any like that. It’s not a common thing for “NT women” to do.



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10 Jun 2019, 7:42 pm

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I’ve never known any like that. It’s not a common thing for “NT women” to do.

Sorry but you are wrong. Most NT women try to seduce men that they like by getting hidden to their friends in touch to them. Rubbing the breasts on him while passing him or rubbing their back on him are the most commen ways. Didn't you know this?


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10 Jun 2019, 7:45 pm

quite an extreme wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
I’ve never known any like that. It’s not a common thing for “NT women” to do.

Sorry but you are wrong. Most NT women try to seduce men that they like by getting hidden to their friends in touch to them. Rubbing the breasts on him while passing him or rubbing their back on him are the most commen ways. Didn't you know this?


Women in bars who have had too much to drink might do this, but most women don’t. Didn’t you know this?



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10 Jun 2019, 7:51 pm

Twilightprincess wrote:
quite an extreme wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
How often have you experienced this personally?
Adults aren’t supposed to go around rubbing themselves on other people they don’t know.

How often? Countless. It happens quite often that women do this towards me. I think it's a common approach that quite many NT women do if they like a guy. Why not?


I’ve never known any like that. It’s not a common thing for “NT women” to do.


It's fairly common in that kind of scene. That's why the OP should keep in mind that what he generally sees there is not regular behaviour even for NTs.


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